Why do many talk show hosts seem to be stuck on telling the victim to get a backbone and stand up to her abuser when in many cases it may actually be safer for the victim to do absolutely nothing?
No one has the right to tell anyone to "get a backbone" and move out. It's an ignorant thing to say and even more so being a Talk Show Host because they are suppose to do their homework before their program. If they did, they would realize that leaving an abusive situation isn't as simple for many women as it looks. Until a person walks in the victim's shoes they have no right to make such comments. However, in this day and age there is absolutely no reason for a woman to stay in an abusive relationship. I volunteer for a Women's Abuse Center" and there is plenty of help for the victim and they can even get legal counsel and are also kept in a "safe house" or "Transition House" until they can get psychological counseling to undo the brain-washing techniques the abuser has caused, and also legal counsel to get rid of the abuser. After that they will even help the person to find ways to better their education or get a job and become independent. I know many women who have managed to get away from their abuser and are living on their own. It is NOT safe to stay in an abusive situations and it's proven often. Some men get so angry they can beat their victims half to death, cripple them and even sometimes murder is involved. If there are children involved it's all the more reason to get out of this abusive relationship. Believe it or not a victim of abuse does has the power to change her destiny. Good luck Marcy
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there's absolutely no way of telling, you just have to buy the pack and find out. Read More
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Nothing... Read More
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you don't. LOL Read More
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The falaasha Jews are and old sect but not the oldest by far. The Hemrophelidite Jews are actually the oldest considering that they started the religion from smoking what is now known today as opium. The hallucinations that they experince made them actually belive that there was a Jewish god and that he was telling them what to do and all of that fun stuff. Even though the hemrophelidites had nothing to do with the… Read More
then he doesn't actually. if he did, you would know Read More
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You are going crazy for a boy but you are 10 he likes you you think but you are not telling him what do you do?
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Can anyone help you with this ow do you tell your parents you have a girlfriend because you want her to come over?
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the know nothing party was about not telling anybody anything that occured..for example,i know nothing i dnt noe wat happened!!lol i mean that's wat my social studies teacher told meh Read More
Your drivers manual that came with the car should show you. Read More
True or False When Bella hears Edward's voice he is actually talking to her and telling her to be safe?
false its her imagination Read More
wink or just talk to him alot (something you have in common) Read More
Yes I can actually.... (Hem-Hem): "I wish you would stop telling me what to do." Read More
Winding a watch is actually the process of storing kinetic energy. This energy is released as the watch winds down telling the time. Read More
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What happens if you delete the email telling you what to do after the playstation network was hacked?
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