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Why do men say they still want to be friends after a relationship and then avoid you?
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∙ 18y ago
becuse they dnt no how 2 put it in another way its 2 get out of it realy luv jd Well we had been being friends for 3 months but kissing and cuddling and he didn't want me to get close but as you know your head doesn't always rule your heart. When i told him i loved him i guess he got spooked which i understand.I thought we would have remained good friends if not got better cos we could get closer as friends but he hasn't spoke to me in days and hes really distant. Well, I am a man, and I understand why I am doing it. It's because I really really like my ex. She's a hell of a woman. But during our relationship I found out that I'm actually not very passionately in love with her. I just like the intimacy we had. So, I concluded: I see her as a good friend. But she sees it differently, she still sees me as the love of her life. That's very sad, because I know I cannot be that to her. Also, I must get over my own sadness and move on, and if she's around, I find that hard. I cannot think clearly, and before I know, I'm stuck in the relationship pattern again. So that's why I am avoiding her: to give myself and her time to heal, so that we can be happy to see eachother, and be friends, instead of being unhappy and stuck in the past.
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∙ 18y ago
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This girl kissed me several times but do want to end up in a relationship still want to be friends why?
It i possible that even though the girl is showing you she is interested but telling you hat she still wants to remain friends is because she is not yet comfortable with a relationship other than friendship with you.
What do you do if your best guy friend likes you but you don't want to accept it?
You simply tell him you don't want to continue the relationship, but still want to be friends.
Why are some friends so rude but you still want to be friends with them?
i think cuz they just want u to be a companion to them. but trust me the relationship or friendship is of no use. he or she is not a true friend.
Is it possible to change a relationship back to dating and still keep being best friends?
Depends on what both of you want out of your relationship or friendship and how strong it is.
How do you impress a girl whom you love but is also your best friend?
if you do want to be in a relationship just tell her that you love her but still want to be friends
What should you do if you don't want to be friends with someone?
If I don't want to be friends with someone I simply avoid them if I can, or just politely ignore them if i can't avoid them.
How can you get over loving someone who insists on being in contact and staying good friends?
Just try to think of them as more of a friend than a partner, i've just come out of a long term relationship, but i still want to remain in contact and be good friends, and he wants to aswell. I'll miss being in a relationship, but the fact that they still want to stay in contact and be friends, shows how good your relationship was! Just try and be friends, but not look at all the things that you did when you were in a relationship, depends how intimate you were, but you'll be okay, just be honest
Why introduce a girl to your friends but tell her you dont know what you want relationship wise?
Maybe they just want to be friends and want you to know their friends.
How do you find that although he has relationship with someone else he still loves you?
Tell him you want to ask him something,ask him if you are friends,then,hell take it from there
What do you do if you love your ex but he still wants to be friends?
Try not to contact him. You will never really be friends with someone you love. Imagine them telling you about their next relationship. I don't think you want to be in that situation.
What does you just want to be friends mean?
It means u dont want a relationship with someone, just to be friends
When endding a relationship with your spouse and your spouse avoid it what does it mean?
They do not want the relationship to end. Avoiding the situation for them keeps them in the relationship.
