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Why do people fight so much in a relationship and what are things to help avoid fighting?
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∙ 17y ago
There can be several reasons. The couple may not have enough of the same interests. They aren't intellectually balanced with each other. They can be more angry at themselves then the person they are getting angry at because they lack confidence. Lack of communication skills. Laziness in the relations or absence of any feelings for your mate's feelings. One of the two could just love to argue so even if you said "the sky is blue" the other person would tell you it was gray! Immaturity plays a big role as well. Learning to share thoughts and emotions. You sound like a smart person, so try sitting down with your mate and communicating (NO blaming or accusations) but stress you would like to better the relationship. Get the person to sit down and write a list of the things they don't like about you and then you do the same thing. Exchange lists. Mature people won't fight over it, but learn from it. If this doesn't work and the arguing continues then it's time to move on. Angry words can't be taken back and anger is simply wasted energy. Good luck Marcy
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How can i avoid fighting with my girlfriend?
To avoid quarrels and fight, you need understanding of issues. You have learn to let go of certain things and come to common ground.
Things to avoid in a relationship?
Justt Be Honest Tell The Person That You're Not Ready For A RelationShip, Tell Them,Youre Just Mingling,Right Now.
What should you do if you are unhappy with the way things are going in your relationship but even if you ignore or avoid the person you still love them?
Any two people can love eachother. It takes mature and committed people to make a relationship work. Loving a person doesn't matter if you are generally unhappy in the relationship. If the relationship is worth saving, it is time to sit down and have a talk with your partner and go into 'couples therapy.'
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Avoid it.
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What specific things can people do to avoid the cost of restoring the ecosystem?
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How do you avoid your parents fighting?
This may not be an exact factual answer, and this may not be what you should do in certain situations but i learned that sometimes telling them that they are fighting in front of you and you don't like it can sort of snap them out of the argument and almost get them to avoid you when they're fighting
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Chief Joseph agreed to stop fighting to avoid further bloodshed and protect his people from harm. He hoped that surrendering would ultimately lead to better treatment and opportunities for the Nez Perce people.
How were children protected in the war?
They were evacuated to the country to avoid the fighting
