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Why does my husband verbally and emotionally abuse me but when no one else is around everyone thinks he's great?
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∙ 15y ago
The question is not why is he doing this, but, why are you letting him do this. But to be more precise to your answer, it is because you allow him to. Just remember: "No one may make you feel inferior without your consent."
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∙ 15y ago
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∙ 11y agoHe does that because he has emotional problems and he takes his own anger, guilt, insecurity, self doubt, cowardice, failures and ineffectiveness out on you. He does it in private so that others won't believe you if you talk about it. Also, he is doing everything he can to make it impossible for you to find support within your circle of friends and family. Those are the typical behaviors of an abuser and it will likely escalate. You are a victim of domestic abuse. You must look in your area for a support group for victims of spousal abuse, perhaps by calling your town hall or a large local hospital or even calling the local Red Cross. You need to act now.
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