Why does something else fall apart when something good happens?

Answer 1

This shouldn't´t happen, because our life is meant to be a continuous construction. God alerts us through His Son Jesus Christ when he said that the prudent man builds his house on a rock, so when the storm and tempest comes, it is secure. The unaware man builds it on the sand, so when tempest comes, the whole house goes with it. My suggestion is: try to build your life on more solid ways - on the rock. Because when you are victorious, you will be able to hold everything that happens good in your life. Just repeat the words: "Jesus Christ, I recognize you are my Lord and savior, I repent from all my sins. Write my name on the Book of Life with your blood." It may sound corny, but God only expects an action from us to make everything happen to us - and to be permanent. Wish you the best! Our lives are built on the choices we make. As we make more correct choices than incorrect, we build will power. What we experience is re-created from our thoughts. By learning how to concentrate, we can more accurately choose those elements that become a part of our picture. When the picture is less than clear, that is when we get those surprises. We need this feedback through our experiences so we can learn to clarify. Many thoughts that become a part of our creative pictures are unconscious. It behooves each of us to be more aware of our thoughts and to bring the unconscious thoughts into our consciousness so that a decision can be made about where it belongs. This is why undivided attention is the first step to real progression. When we are using undivided attention, we are controlling what we take in through the five senses and it is stored properly in the brain. This information is what we then use to reason. Without using this process productively, we are limited to mere rationalization which is why so many are so confused. To rationalize is to attempt to fit any new information into what we already have rather than looking to see what we can learn through taking in more information.

Karma is part of the law of balance and means our indebtedness to ourselves, which is to understand. Understanding is the only way to offset karma. We cannot get rid of anything, it must be replaced. Working with increasing our understandings while using what we know will cause things to go better. Sometimes bad things happen to good people and sometimes too many bad things happen to good people and it's not their fault. It's how we perceive the problem, find the best solution and deal with it. Most of us can look back on our lives and think 'Oh my, if I knew I'd have to go through all those things I would have never made it!' The point is THAT PERSON DID! Most of us have had some hard knocks in life and some people just seem to get one after the other, but it's very true that if we get through these bad times then we are stronger and have more character. There will come a time in your life when you feel there isn't anything you can't handle. It's true having faith helps and I'm a Christian and feel very strong spiritually and mentally. I never feel totally alone. I know the things I go through there is a reason for and it's called 'lessons in life' so I can fight it or go with it and try to resolve them the best I can. One thing for sure, I'll come out stronger in the end and always have. Some humans curse themselves without realizing it. They can have a great event in their lives happen and they enjoy every moment of it, yet later have something tragic happen and humans prefer to remember the bad things rather than the good. Of course when there is a tragic event that happens we react to it, but when things calm down we have to rationalize that we've also had many happy moments. They say if we are not sad we don't know happiness; if we don't cry our souls will dry up; if we feel no compassion we become robotic and selfish and if we don't roll with the punches in life we'll become jaded, frail and waste the rest of our lives. Out of bad things good things can happen. For example: If a friend of yours is killed in a car accident because of drinking (I sure hope this never happens) then you could become part of Mother's Against Drunk Drivers, or form your own group to educate others about drinking and driving and save many lives. Remember that each person you care about in your life you learn something new from if you are paying attention and if one of your loved ones dies then you should remember what you have learned from them (a true blessing in most cases) and move on with that new knowledge. You as well leave 'imprints' on others. We are always being tested through life and none of us are going to escape these testings. We are tested for faith, honestly, loyalty, integrity and have a strong character because of it. Money, power, position is nothing without it. Each of us is important in life and no one is better than the other. As I always say when I can get down, 'Marcy, sit up and fly right!' Then I give myself a whack on the cheek, pick myself up, dust myself off and try to resolve the problem and get on with life.