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Why does the narcissist always have to talk about their ex partners to their new one?
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∙ 17y ago
Narcissists like to brag about their past and they also collect "victims!" Without actually saying how rotten they were to their former ex's they want you to know how important they are and I bet he/she made sure they added that THEY left their ex. It's about control! When I dated if a guy talked about his former girlfriends in a bad way (unless it was an abusive relationship) I kicked him to the curb because that part of his life should be private and he should think enough of his past ex's to keep it private. I never asked about any of my boyfriends former ex's. I heard a lot of stuff from my N about his ex. According to him, he was a saint and she an evil woman. He told me of some domestic disputes involving the law where SHE was (of course) At Fault. I did some investigating after I broke up with my N. It turns out that all the things he accused her of doing were actually done by HIM! Not very pleasant stuff either... Now that we have broken up, he is telling everyone that I cheated on him...(?!) It is not true (of course). Makes me wonder what HE had been doing! People may believe him once or even twice, but anymore than that and people get the picture ... it's him! Just move on hon and thank your lucky stars you are rid of him. You're one smart girl!
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∙ 17y ago
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∙ 17y agoThey are about control and it's their way of driving it home to you that they are the "lone wolf" type and can take or leave a relationship (so you'd better be good!) My bet is HE left his ex's and not the reverse when it's highly possible THEY left him! Since you feel he has narcissistic traits do yourself a favor and kick this guy to the curb now and move on! It only gets worse. To make you feel insecure. Hes tryiing to let you know that you were not the first. He wants you to be jealous. Dont fall for this game. His ex is probably glad hes outa her life. To make you feel "special" because he picked you to be with. Also to make you try harder to please him. Then you have nagging doubts that you will never measure up to his standards. You think its all your fault.. then someday that would be his excuse for "dumping" you. What really happened is he has led you on with broken promises and lies, leaves you hanging there and then provokes you into reacting a certain way. He claims you are crazy and that he had to let you go. The other scenario is you eventually become disgusted with has behavior and fed up with all his lies. So you confront him and get the hell out. Either way NEVER forget it isn't you who let him down - it is he who let you down. He cant even measure up to being HUMAN!
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