In a situation like this you must determine whether lack of fuel or lack of spark is preventing your motor from running. To test this disconnect the air intake behind the mass air flow sensor. Have someone try to start the vehicle while you spray starter fluid ( available at parts stores ) into the intake manifold. If the vehicle starts you have a fuel problem. If it does not start you have a spark ( ignition electrical ) problem.
If you attempt to start your car and a 'whistle' noise is likely the Bendix on the starter spinning, spinning very fast because it has not come out of the it's housing and meshed with the flywheel gears. "Bendix" is a brand name for the starter drive.
The noise is the teeth on the flywheel grinding on the teeth of the starter. Check to see if the starter is loose, this is the most common cause of that noise.
Usually this is the starter clutch not engaging. Caused by using too heavy a grade of oil or going too long between changes. Try an oil change. The problem is usually only there on a cold engine.
You need to check your starter or your starter selenoid.
When a starter goes completely out then the engine will not turn over. A starter that is going bad could start sometimes or make considerable noise.
The starter could grind if the bendix is sticking
The starter should only be making noise if you attempt to start the car and the starter is going bad. It is possible that the remote starter is bypassing the mechanical starter. Starters are very easy to replace. Be sure to disconnect the car battery before doing so.
Most starting problems will be caused by a faulty relay or solenoid where you will only hear a clicking sound when trying to start the vehicle or a low battery in which case you will hear a buzzing-type rapid clicking noise. Ocassionally a starter does go bad in which case what you are listening for is a whirring noise (bad starter drive) where the starter will turn but not engage the flywheel, or a grinding noise also known as dragging (worn bushings) which is diagnozed by the starter turning very slow. If there is a "clunking" noise while attempting to start the engine, the starter drive gear may be worn and "spinning" on the flywheel without engaging, or the gear and/or flywheel may have damaged teeth. Also, there may be a case of a starter being burnt out in which case you have to remove the starter and hook it up direct to see if it will turn.
If the hum is more like a whirring or spinning noise, the starter drive, also known as bendix, needs to be replaced.
Starter solenoid is defective. You will have to remove the starter and have it tested at an auto parts store.
The clicking noise you can hear is the starter solenoid clicking into place. If the starter motor does not turn the engine immediately, it is probably the best place to look. it sounds like the starter motor is faulty.
A bad starter might make a noise. The starter could also go bad with no noise or warning. However if the starter is making noise then there is a problem that could cause failure at any time