Why does your husband never tell you he cares for or loves you and never show his emotions and complain about you behind your back to his sisters and only obey his brother-in-law and sister?

Answer 1

Some cultures will often do this such as Italians, East Indians, Asians. The man is held high in all those cultures, so it's up to the woman (in their eyes) to spoil the man and be there for his every request. They forget that we are in a Westernized culture now and it doesn't work. Your husband isn't a man at all. He should be sitting down with you and talking things out. He should understand that your married life is between him and you and nothing to do with the rest of the family or even friends. Put your foot down! You are stronger than you think. You are a person with feelings, you get tired and perhaps sometimes depressed and these are all very normal feelings that anyone can go through. Tell this guy to get a spine or you are leaving. Tell his sister and brother-in-law to back off! Start taking charge! You can do it! If your husband assaults you for taking a stand press charges! There are Women's Centers in every city to help you. Don't let anyone run your life in this manner. Your husband is immature and a controller. Good luck Marcy