Why does your husband of eight years seem more interested in his computer than you if he doesn't cyber cheat but plays video games up to six hours a day when he's not at work and you have no sex life?

He possibly feels unapreciated and maybe even unloved, possibly a little scared of confrontation (feels nothing he does is right by you). Don't blame yourself, chances are he is lazy at home and deserves to be yelled at, but if you take the time to talk to him about his day and sit down for a coffee or whatever when he gets home, he should gradually come around and start to spend more time with you.