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Why is it hard to bring the love back in your marriage after your spouse cheated?
Mgodat
i think because some of your love for them has
died. you would have never thought someone you loved would betray you and cheat on you. nd your spouse knws they have betrayed you nd even if they love you 120% of their heart, they still feel guilty.
your love will be hard to get back fully to its before state..
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Would you want your spouse back after he cheated on you?
yes. you have to have them.
Do you forgive cheating spouse of fifteen years?
People simply aren't perfect and we all make mistakes in some areas of our life. If this is the first time your spouse has cheated then yes, you should try to work out your marriage difficulties by either seeing a marriage counselor or a psychologist. It takes two to make a marriage. However, (as long as you haven't cheated) then your spouse has broken the bond of trust and must earn it back, but, you should try as well to perhaps pay more attention to your spouse and learn to communication regarding each others feelings. When something is broken in a marriage it often is simply due to poor communication skills.
Can you man trust his wife after she cheated?
No, once a spouse has cheated they have broken that bond of trust even though humans are not perfect and can make one mistake by cheating on their spouse. The spouse that was cheated on will always have that hurt tucked away in the back of their minds and be very wary of their spouse cheating again. However, many times a spouse may cheat; that bond of trust broken, but if it was just a one time issue then the married couple can still have a good strong marriage if they work on their communication skills and are honest with each other regarding their feelings.
Is separation after your spouse has had an affair be good for your marriage?
Yes, often times a separation is a good thing when one spouse has had an affair. It gives each spouse a chance to stand back and reflect on how they feel and if they really love their spouse or whether to move on from the marriage. Once a spouse has cheated it is difficult to earn the trust back from the other spouse. Perhaps put a few months limit on the separation and then meet to discuss how both of you feel about each other. The quote, 'Absence makes the heart grow fonder' may apply in this case. Sometimes spouses don't know how lucky they are and how much they love their spouse until they are no longer there.
How do you put your family back together again after your spouse cheated?
If your spouse has not cheated before to your knowledge then 'to err is human' and this can happen in many marriages. If your spouse is truly remorseful then you should see a marriage counselor to learn tools to communicate with each other better and to know the signs where the marriage is weak. No marriage is perfect and everyone has to work on their marriage. If this is beyond repair it is extremely important that you realize (even if your children are in their teens) that neither of you bad mouth each other and be civil to each other and realize your children simply see you and your spouse as 'mom and dad' and they seldom want to choose between parents. If the children are minors then both parents even though one spouse is heartbroken should be mature enough to get along while the children are present and custody issues should be amicable. It is far better to try if the cheating spouse is willing to seek marriage counseling and to try to get along while the children are present.
For the person that was cheated on does it feel like their whole being will never heal after an affair by their spouse?
People who are cheated on by their spouse go through a grieving time much like that of losing someone you love to death and, in ways it is a death of the bond of trust that was broken by your spouse and crushed the good memories that you both had together. This leaves the spouse that was cheated on feeling as if they have been in another world and why didn't they see the signs of their spouse cheating, but, when you are true to the one you love you are not expecting them to cheat on you. The spouse that was cheated on may feel inadequate (they did not do all the right things); are not attractive and often blame themselves when, in fact, they most likely did nothing wrong. Men or women who want to cheat do so because they can and often need no excuse to do so. Individuals do not know what they are capable of 100% so how can they expect to know what their spouse is capable of. The spouse that was cheated on has to decide if this was a first time event of cheating by their spouse and then discuss with that spouse if they are willing to go to marriage counseling to learn the tools to know how to handle problems in a marriage and strengthening the marriage, but, if the cheating spouse has cheated before then it is time to part company and move on with your own life. Most women are very strong individuals and for those that do not know themselves well they need to get back out into society; rely on family and friends for support and realize that indeed women can get along without men. When the woman realizes she is stronger than she thought and enjoys her own company as well as her new-found independence without relying on a man this is when she will be more successful in a new relationship. Time heals and yes, you will heal.
How do you bring back the passion and intimacy after a spouse has cheated?
The best thing you could both do at this point if willing is see a marriage counsellor which will help deal with the extra marital affair and also help integrate a healthy sex life back into the marriage. It will be hard for a while how long I do not know. This will be up to you and it depends to the circumstances to why it happened. The two of you need to have a serious talk about it. Tell him how you feel and what its doing to you emotionally. Be honest and don't be afraid to say what its doing to you. Your spouse is the only one that can fix and help you because he/she was the one that betrayed you. Just be honest and never forget the truth will hurt.
Why cheating ruins trust in marriage?
Vows were taken in a marriage to love and honor and the couple are expected to stay together for the rest of their lives. When a spouse cheats they break this bond of trust and it is extremely difficult to gain back if the spouse being cheated on doesn't ask for a divorce first. Cheating is sleazy; selfish and hurts not only the husband or wife; but any children they have and perhaps members of both sides of the family. When a spouse cheats they are not only cheating, but they are lying to their spouse.
What should you do if you cant learn to trust your spouse?
* If your spouse has been true to you then you are a highly jealous person and need to seek psychological counseling before you completely destroy your relationship with your spouse. If your spouse has cheated on you then it will take many months; possibly years to ever trust them again. Once trust is broken it is difficult to get back. Seek marriage counseling and the two of you should learn the tools to survive in your relationship if you really love each other.
What will make your spouse come back to you after you cheated on her?
Hopefully you don't need to do anything and go on with your cheating life. I don't think she wants to be with a cheater!
In a community property state is it illegal for a spouse to commit identity theft against his spouse when their separated?
if their going threw a divorce yes she can get him for commitidentity theft. cause it a marriage property. and it has to settle in court by the judge. and the law will made him bring it back unit every thing is settlein court .
Can you bring the joy back by saving your marriage?
most of the time it will bring fragments of joy back when you save marriage but the condition is, love and trust must still be around to support the marriage because if there's no love and trust anymore, saving the marriage will just be a waste of time.
