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How do you put your family back together again after your spouse cheated?
Mgodat
- If your spouse has not cheated before to your knowledge then 'to err is human' and this can happen in many marriages. If your spouse is truly remorseful then you should see a marriage counselor to learn tools to communicate with each other better and to know the signs where the marriage is weak. No marriage is perfect and everyone has to work on their marriage. If this is beyond repair it is extremely important that you realize (even if your children are in their teens) that neither of you bad mouth each other and be civil to each other and realize your children simply see you and your spouse as 'mom and dad' and they seldom want to choose between parents. If the children are minors then both parents even though one spouse is heartbroken should be mature enough to get along while the children are present and custody issues should be amicable. It is far better to try if the cheating spouse is willing to seek marriage counseling and to try to get along while the children are present.
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How can you restore your trust again after your spouse cheated the second time?
don't trust because if its the second time the chance has gone and so is the trust
How do you rebuild the love and intimacy after your spouse cheated on you?
No. He or she could do it again. Unless you love them so much that you can't stand living without them. I wouldn't though.
Has anyone cheated once and then never cheated again?
I have, and haven't yet again.
Why would a man take a woman that has cheated?
Humans are not perfect and a woman may have only cheated once and will never do it again. You cannot judge a person by past deeds when it comes to love. If they have learned their lesson well from their mistakes they will probably never cheat again and make a good spouse. The other question is ... what if the man has cheated himself! Why would a woman take a chance on him.
My husband cheated on me again. What should I do?
Once a spouse has cheated it is difficult for the other spouse to trust them again. Often some people who cheat will cheat again. Communication skills are important and you should feel free to ask him if he is cheating again. Most likely he will not tell you the truth, but this gives you the opportunity that you have learned from before the signs of cheating and if you catch him cheating again then it's the end of the marriage.
Can you man trust his wife after she cheated?
No, once a spouse has cheated they have broken that bond of trust even though humans are not perfect and can make one mistake by cheating on their spouse. The spouse that was cheated on will always have that hurt tucked away in the back of their minds and be very wary of their spouse cheating again. However, many times a spouse may cheat; that bond of trust broken, but if it was just a one time issue then the married couple can still have a good strong marriage if they work on their communication skills and are honest with each other regarding their feelings.
How can you respect your spouse after he cheated?
Great question! But also important is how can you every trust him again. Ultimately, the answer to both questions is simple to express, but hard to do. You need to be able to "forgive" the infidelity.
What should you do if you fight constantly because she cheated and lied?
well, if she cheated and lied about it you probably shouldn't be together anymore but only if you KNOW she cheated and lied about it... unless you can work things about, she (or you) won't do it again, and you completely trust each other... you probably shouldn't be together anymore... or at least take a break from each other
My ex dumped me because he thought i cheated on him and i didnt and im still love him should i ask him out again and does he love me?
No. If he thought you cheated on him then he's a suspicious type (one's to avoid!), and even if you got back together - it'll happen again. Guaranteed. Anyway you can do better!
Can a cheating fiance repent can she be given a second chance?
If the spouse really loves the person that cheated then they should give a 2nd chance to other. But if they cheat again then that's when you pull out the "sharp stuff"
Has Ashley cole cheated on cheryl since they got back together in July?
the magazines say that he has cheated on her again with a blonde girl and because he likes blonde girls she is said to die her hair blonde because of that
How would you know that your wife won't cheat on you again?
If your spouse has only cheated once then realize that people are only human and they can make mistakes, but can also learn from their mistakes and if they confess without being prodded to the cheating or they feel remorseful and want to save the marriage then seek marriage counseling to learn tools to strengthen the marriage. If your spouse has cheated more than once then they probably are non committal and will cheat again no matter what they promise. As humans we do not even know ourselves 100% so we cannot be expected to know another person 100% and by being together it is a risk, but time will tell.
