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Why is it hard to face your friends after learning your husband had a love affair is this normal to feel ashamed?
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∙ 12y ago
- Man or woman would find themselves in an embarrassing situation when their friends found out that their spouse was having a love affair. The spouse that is cheating has been making a fool of their spouse while the trusting spouse may have boasted how wonderful their husband or wife was and along it is quite possible that even a few friends knew the spouse was cheating. Yes it is a normal feeling, but hold your head up high because your husband is going to look like the jerk through all of this. Don't be surprised if some of your friends (couples) may not want to get caught up in choosing between you and your husband, but there will be especially female friends that will stand by you. You have nothing to be ashamed about so don't act like it.
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Is alesha Dixon single?
She did have a husband, but they are now divorced. He had an affair with one of her friends!
When did agatha divorce her first husband?
Agatha Christie divorced her first husband, Archibald Christie, in 1928 after learning of his affair with another woman. This event had a significant impact on her life and writing.
What do you do if your husband has had an affair for 4 years with one of your best friends and you find out that your husband is the father of a child born out of this affair?
Leave him and her behind. If they wanted to be with each other they should have come to you and told you about their affair and not keep it in the dark. Seek a lawyers advice on divorce. Your marriage to me is not salvageable because of the length of the affair and the fact that there is now a love child involved.
What are the symptoms when your husband has an affair?
if he is accusing you of having an affair, when you are not.
What to do if your husband and sister had an affair?
Divorse to husband , breakupwith boyfriend
Is it ok to keep having an affair after 6 years and no on knows?
no you should be ashamed of yourself
Can you sue your husband for having an affair?
No
What do you do if you classify your husband affair material?
ANSWER: Even if your husband is an affair material, that will not be his legit reason why he is having an affair. It can't be that he is not getting his needs at home, it will explain why he ask you to marry him if he will betrayed you.
Why do you feel ashamed being around close friends after your husband's affair?
You are in control of your life and there it is you that puts the shame on yourself. You did nothing wrong and the blame lays in front of your husband's feet. Your friends have more empathy for you than your husband and some friends may not mention anything to you giving you the impression they do not care, but they do and they just do not want to bring up the painful situation to you. No one wants pity and your friends are being respectful of you. Trust in one or two loyal friends that you can discuss your feelings with and remember that you are the same person you always were and never let any man take that from you. Stop hiding; see your friends and if possible and you want too then be strong and communicate to your husband that he either goes with you to marriage counseling to resolve the problems you have and if he refuses then kick him out and see a lawyer re a divorce. You are far stronger than you give yourself credit for.
Best friend having an affair with a friends' husband?
Best friend having an affair with friends husband? I recently found out that my best friend is having an affair with the husband of a couple my husband and I hang out with often. It seems, the affair has been going on for several months (almost a year) but I found out about it a few weeks ago. My best friend was sworn to secrecy by him and was made to promise that she would never tell me but one night, while I was at her place having drinks, she had a few too many and spilled the beans. Problem is, my husband and I are pretty close to the married couple and often times we have dinner, travel, or hang out at each other's homes. I am at a loss as to how to handle this. What would you do in my situation? Now that I know, I feel guilty although I had nothing to do with them hooking up.
How do you tell your husband girlfriend's employer about their affair?
You do not tell your husband's girlfriend's employer anything. The employer is a businessman and is not interested in the private affairs of his employees unless it interferes with their work performance. It should be your husband you are going after and if you feel the relationship is over then file for divorce. Your husband is the one that started this affair because he either provoked the affair or he could have said 'no' if she suggested having an affair with him. Put the blame where it belongs ... your husband!
Did I do the right thing by telling the husband his wife was having an affair with your husband?
No, it is not a mistake to tell the husband his wife was having an affair with your husband. However, some wives can be in denial and they may not believe their husband is cheating, but most do.
