No rules or laws in any culture if i haven't heard of prohibit a husband to declare or show his affection and passion to their marriage.
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I love the question. there are some married men that don't know anything when it comes to sex. They will act and talk like their expert or maybe "macho" is a good way to call those men who do not know how to please their women. Why? men thinks that they have more power than us women, so by this stupid myth they let woman do the initiate things when it comes to passion especially sex.
He is reaching out to you. Pay attention and give him the love and affection he needs.
I am sure you heard this before, but here goes again It takes, both of you and a marriage councelor...
I takes 2 to tango. Forget the mistress and concern yourself with your marriage and why your husband is sleeping around.
You clear things before committing the biggest thing in your life...MARRIAGE! Ask her if she's ready or if she really needs a father....
No, a wife shouldn't have to do everything to keep a marriage interesting and to keep the marriage together. Both spouses are suppose to work together by communicating their feelings and needs to each other and resolve any problems they may have. A woman should let her husband know that she needs more romance and attention in her marriage and sometimes the husbands simply feels confused as to what a wife wants so it is up to the wife to start good communication skills between herself and her husband and while she tells him about her needs she should ask about his needs. Perhaps plan a romantic vacation away even if it is for a weekend.
If you have never cheated and just your husband has then it is not you that needs to forgive yourself, but your husband needs to smarten up and see what he has done to you. There are no excuses for cheating! If people are that unhappy in a relationship they should have the fortitude to face the person and tell them the relationship is over and then start dating other people. People who cheat are spineless; have no moral sense; do not respect the feelings of their spouse and are self centered and selfish. Your husband needs to earn your trust back if he wants to come back into the marriage and if so, then marriage counseling would be a good idea to give you both the tools to learn to communicate better and to deal with any problems you have in your marriage.
Then you should think about leaving and extracting yourself from the marriage that way.
Capulet tells Paris that he needs to win Juliet's heart and consent before they can proceed with the marriage. He advises Paris to woo Juliet and gain her affection before rushing into marriage.
It takes Cognitive thinking which is simply looking at the ways of the lover and the husband. Remembering when you first met your husband and how you fell in love; the memories and why you both got married. It is extremely easy for a lover to pick up the shreds of a marriage when a wife gets bored with her husband or feels her husband is not paying enough attention to her. Like it or not it is generally up to the woman to take the lead and start good communication skills between her husband and herself. Couples are not mind readers. You took a vow to be with your husband and as long as he is a good man and treats you well and with respect then you owe him that respect. Lovers comes in hordes, but good husbands don't. It is much wiser to communicate with your husband regarding your needs and also asking what his needs are in order to have a decent marriage (no marriage is perfect.) There are two sayings that are so true 'marriage isn't for sissies' and 'old age isn't for sissies.'
it means that only God can save your marriage and you NEED OUT!!!! It most likely means either that your husband loves you, but needs a little more excitement in a certain area of his life or your husband stands to lose alot in the divorce. Its cheaper for him this way.
It's not the woman who needs to be sued but your ex husband is the one that did all the hurting. No one forced him to be unfaithful.AnswerIn a few states a tort action can still be pursued in civil court by a deserted spouse against the third party who is alleged to have caused the disintegration of the marriage: alienation of affection. Legal fees can be costly and modern courts are rather likely to assign blame to the spouse responsible for the break up of the marriage and not hold their lover completely responsible. Perhaps for your own well being you should discuss the situation with the attorney who represented you in your divorce who knows your situation and could explain your options, if any, under your state laws. See link below for more state-by-state information about alienation of affection.
ANSWER: This issue are real and it always happen. could it be the husband is taking for granted of his wife. It could be the husband doesn't have anymore time for his wife. It could be that this man feels comfortable about his marriage that he forgot that his wife also needs him. Or her husband is abusing her that he can't take it anymore. Or her husband is having an affair.