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Why is my oldest brother so miserable cruel mean and never have anything nice to say about his mouth He always been verbally abusive and disrespectful he spit in my face and nobody whipped his A ss?
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∙ 12y ago
You have almost answered your own question. He is miserable. He is unhappy. He is angry. And he is not coping well with all those bad feelings. He is battling to be what all people want to be, which is happy.
And because he is sad and frustrated and not coping he builds up a terrible force of emotion inside him that bursts out as violence and rudeness and even hatred. He is hurting inside, and making you hurt is part of his crazy way of dealing with that.
I never met your brother, but maybe he is age 13 to 18. Its a hard age for boys - they are growing up, they are full of aggressive male hormones they can't cope with, they want to leave home and be independent, but thats hard and they desperately desperately want to get the approval of their friends. They want to prove their independence and courage to their friends by doing brave things, and in a city the brave things are the illegal things. The stupid things.
Wh*pping his *ss isn't going to help much. He needs to have limits set. He needs to be controlled, firmly and kindly.
He needs to be guided by older men, young adults, who will demonstrate to him that he needs to respect people, treat them well, and that happiness comes from being part of a community. See if you can find an older guy who can take charge of him.
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