As the novel progresses, Scout is worried about Jem growing up and separating himself from her. When Jem fights back, it is just like old times; Scout still feels that a little of her childhood is alive. It isn't until Jem reports to Atticus about Dill running away from his parents that Jem breaks the final code of childhood.Jem has reached a point of maturity where he can gauge situations and their seriousness. This is definitely a sign that Jem is becoming a young man and Scout doesn't like it.
Scout is pleased when Jem fights back because it shows that he is willing to defend her. However, she is less pleased when he tells Atticus about Dill because she feels betrayed and wants to keep their adventures a secret from their father. Scout values their friendship and feels hurt that Jem would choose to share something that was meant to be private between them.
Scout learns that Atticus is defending a negro from her brother Jem when he tells her about it after a confrontation at an event at the Maycomb County courthouse.
Atticus scolds Scout about fighting at school after he finds out that she beat up Walter Cunningham. He tells her that he does not approve of her using her fists to solve her problems and encourages her to find other ways to handle conflicts.
Atticus tells Scout that she can have more confidence in herself and her judgments as she gets older. He also mentions that she can count on him for guidance and support.
Atticus tells Scout to obey Calpurnia in Chapter 3 of "To Kill a Mockingbird." This happens during a conversation where Scout questions Atticus about why Calpurnia is considered a part of the family. Atticus explains the importance of respecting Calpurnia and following her instructions.
Scout asks Atticus if he and Walter Cunningham Sr. are poor, to which Atticus responds that they are not. Scout then wonders if the Ewells are considered white, leading to a discussion about societal issues and background.
At Christmas Jean Louise, better known as Scout, fights with her first cousin once removed, Francis Hancock. She splits her knuckle on his teeth after he tells her that Atticus lets her and Jem "run wild" and says that Atticus has now "turned into a nigger-lover."
In "To Kill a Mockingbird," it is Miss Stephanie Crawford who informs Atticus that the children, Scout and Jem, are missing. She tells him that they are missing because they are watching Tom Robinson's trial at the courthouse.
Mrs. Caroline asked Scout to stop reading with Atticus. She believed that Scout had already learned to read at home and should focus on other subjects in school.
Miss Maudie holds up Atticus's skill of shooting as something for Scout to admire. She tells Scout that Atticus is the best shot in Maycomb and reveals how he does not boast about it, allowing his true character to shine through his actions.
Atticus tells Scout very little about the Radley house, as he wants to respect the privacy of the reclusive Radley family. He also wishes to instill in Scout a sense of empathy and understanding for others' perspectives. Atticus encourages Scout to be compassionate and respectful towards Boo Radley and his family.
Scout fights many characters in To Kill a Mockingbird, including Walter Cunningham and Jem. She does not physically fight her father, Atticus, or Cecil Jacobs. Atticus specifically tells Scout not to fight Cecil Jacobs, as he does not view physical violence as a helpful solution to problems. Of fighting Cecil, Scout says, "Somehow, if I fought Cecil I would let Atticus down."
Scout learns from Atticus to have empathy, understanding, and to not judge others too quickly. Atticus advises her to try to see things from others' perspectives and to respond with kindness and compassion rather than anger or judgment.