Why is your man not jealous of what you do?

Answer 1

There is a limit for everything. The fact that your man is not jelous of some things you do does not mean that he is not interested in you or minds what you do or do not do. However, if your man does not get or is not jelous even if you hang out with other man or give that impression then I would question his interest in you. Some men show their jelousy in a very strong way because that is their nature just as some men who do not show it at all. I would have to know what things you do that makes you expect jelousy from his part in order to say whether his reaction is normal. Talk to him and question him what actions of yours would make him jelous and why, especially if they are related to other man in your life. You might find the answer. First off - he may well be jealous - or very bothered by your actions - but as men are trained that this is now frequently considered inappropriate behavior to exhibit, doesn't. In fact, many women do feel that a man would be imposing control over them and want to end the relationship if one does so. I guess if he's a "good man" and your enjoying what your doing, you may wake up and find him gone - as it's possible he will simply leave you alone to do what you want. And, if the actions your doing you actually do act like you enjoy, shouldn't he just allow you to do so, even be happy for you, and just figure it's not his to make you stop? I mean if your making it seem like you just love blowing all his friends, and he actually hates you doing so,...should he tell you to stop doing what makes you happy? A better question may well be why do you want to make him jealous? It is not a good thing in any way...it hurts!

Answer 2

because he likes you? dur dadurr if yer dating another guy, or hanging out a lot with other guys. [you]: "he's just a friend!" [yer guy]: "yeah, right". Try to keep the 'guy friends' to a minimun of about zilch. :)