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Why would a married even want to stay friends with his mistress?
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∙ 6y ago
* Some individuals believe they can still be friends with their exes, but the statistics are extremely low and one of the two individuals is still in love with the other. If there are no children involved with your husband's ex then put your foot down! The rule of thumb 'leave your exes in the past.' Communicate to him how you feel about this and either she goes or you go. That will give him food for thought.
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∙ 14y ago
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∙ 11y ago(1) the husband is unaware of the adultery
(2) he has lost any respect for his wife since she was unfaithful to him but still values the relationship with his friend
(3) he put the friend up to seducing his wife to prove that she could not be faithful
(4) he is secretly planning revenge on the 'friend' - keep your friends close but your enemies closer
(5) he has forgiven the wife, or the friend, or both of them
(6) he wants to discover whether, if he divorces his wife, his friend will still be 'there' for her
(7) he thinks that his wife had sex with his friend just in order to hurt him and is playing her at her own game by maintaining the relationship with his friend
(8) why shouldn't he?
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Why would a married man tell his mistress how much he cant stand his wife and thinking about leaving her even though the mistress never said anything about the two of them being together?
because he wants to talk about it
Is it normal for a mistress and a married man not to be friends anymore once the affair is discovered and why?
i guess it is normal i mean, i guess they might not be friends anymore because they're ashamed ANSWER: A 100% normal, if this man is trying to deal and undo what he done to his wife. But if this married man never care he will find the way to reconnect with his mistress. ANSWER: God yes, it is normal and only the right thing to do. I don't know the whole story of the couples and the mistress but this married man needs to correct or even rebuild his relationship to his wife. The ex mistress needs to be out of his life, she will not help him if all she wants is for them to chit chat like an old friends. The other woman already helped this man to ruined the life of his wife and her role is only his friend with benefit. Affair is fun but with consequences, its time for this ex mistress to go and stop all contact even if the married man fell in love with her, or wants to talk to her. It's a sin and immoral.
How does a mistress get over her married lover?
A mistress can get over her married lover by setting boundaries, focusing on self-care and personal growth, and seeking support from friends, family, or a therapist. It's important to understand and accept that the relationship was not healthy or sustainable, and to move forward with positivity and self-love.
Is the man love you if he only want is to make love to you even if he is married?
No. If he loved you he would leave his wife. Now he might be infatuated but only wants you as his mistress. Tell him he can call you after the divorce.
If a married man told his ex mistress when I see you I am going to think about what we did does that mean he does not think about it when he goes home knowing he was caught cheating?
It's possible that he still thinks about it when he goes home, but his comment suggests that seeing his ex mistress may trigger specific memories or thoughts related to their past actions. It's important to consider the context and communication style between the individuals involved to fully understand the meaning behind his statement.
What does it mean if a married man never talks about his wife to his mistress?
I never heard a married man talk about his wife to his mitress. I think the reason why he end up having an affair is for him not to think, talk, or even look at his wife. The only way that married man will talk about his wife to his mistress is when he want her to feel sorry for him or maybe to make sure that his mistress will think that his wife is not a good wife and then some.
Why do married men take their mistresses for drinks?
even though a married man should not cheat on his wife, that does happen! So, he takes his mistress for drink so that they have a nice time.
Is favorite the polite word for mistress?
No, a mistress is a mistress and generally loses out with the man she is involved with. There are no favorites; just empty promises with the man a mistress is involved with. Mistresses are not well thought of by other women in most cases (some married woman may not even know her husband has a girlfriend) and there is always a code 'don't touch someone's husband or boyfriend!' That being said the mistress cheapens herself and kids herself into thinking she is something special that this married man sees in her. It's about sex and a man that wants more than one woman or perhaps trying to recapture his youth. He is selfish and is using his wife and his mistress. If one wants respect they have to give respect and being the mistress of a married man is not the way to go. It would be wise for you to rethink your position. Statistics prove that a married man will choose his wife over his mistress, or, if he does leave her the percentage is extremely low that he will remain with his mistress and marry her because he wants his freedom or, he may even beg his wife to take him back.New answer: 'Favourite' is not a word used much these days in a sexual context. Historically, in Britain, some kings were said to have 'favourites' but they were men, i.e. the king was gay.
Would a married man stop talking 2 his mistress after getting caught cheating if he has feelings 4 her when he says he wants 2 stay wife because he doesn't want 2 lose everything?
Speaking from personal experience, he would probably stop talking to that mistress and lose passionate feelings for her in a short time-span. But, he would most likely find another(maybe even the same) mistress in a while, due to his lack of feelings for his wife.
Why would a married man would feel awkward around his ex mistress?
Why wouldn't he ? The ex-mistress is essentially his partner in crime. Both parties should feel equally awkward . ANSWER; I guess it all depends on individual. Maybe there are some married men who do feel awkward towards their ex mistress, for what reason will be a bit tricky. Some who do might be thinking the hurt they both did towards his wife made. Or maybe he felt that he destroy the life of his ex mistress. Men who have this feelings can only be answered by them. We can't really read the mind of a man when it comes to what they're thinking. Now the reason why I said it depends, the man I married didn't feel awkward towards his mistress or ex mistress. I did asked him, and his words was, 1- I can't never hate her 2- I don't think I will feel uncomfortable in front of her, or being around her, even our relationship is over. This man I marry can't and will never feel awkward to his ex mistress. It was proven to me by him.
Should someone cut off all guy friends for my significant other even if they aren't married?
no you shouldn't because that could be your type of guy.I would not do it for my significant other, married or not married. But ex boyfriends who are now supposedly just friends - those can be a source of friction.
Who is responsible on stopping the harassment the wife is receiving by the mistress the other woman or the married man who had the affair?
Women by nature are jealous of the other woman so they have a tendency to blame the mistress in the affair and even when the mistress harasses the wife, but it is the husband in this case that should stop the harassment because he started it all. Get tough with the husband and ignore the mistress; the ball is in his court.
