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Why would a true Christian pursue a chaste courtship?

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Atheist viewpointIt depends on what you mean by "true Christian". Jesus never condemned sexual intercourse before marriage. It was commonplace in his day, and if he said anything about it, then it was not recorded. The usual practice was for young people to court, and then to marry as and when it.. "became necessary", shall we say. Many people maintain that The Bible condemns adultery, but adultery is sexual intercourse outside of an existing marriage: not before marriage.

There are no prohibitions of which I am aware in any parts of the Bible which prevent two unmarried people from fulfilling their natural desires, as long as the possible consequences are taken into account. Contraception was unavailable in the time of Jesus, and he said nothing about the subject. Had it been widely available, he may have done, but trying to guess what he *would* have said isn't a fruitful excerise.

Likewise, masturbation is condemned by many Christians because of the Old Testament verses regarding Onan - whose sin was not masturbation, but his deliberate failure to impregnate his older brother's widow - thus denying his brother's estate a male heir. To the best of my knowledge, the scriptures remain silent on sex before marriage.

In short: why would a true Christian persue a chaste courtship? Because they choose to. It may be the course of action they feel most comfortable with. If they don't feel comfortable with it, then somebody else has probably told them that it's wrong to do otherwise, and persuaded them so.

Research the question yourself, read around the subject, taking all views into consideration, and make up your own mind. There are pros and cons to both approaches.

Disclaimer: this answer was provided by an atheist, who has read around the subject a *lot*, and debated fundamental Christians a *lot*. During the course of the research and the debates, I have not encountered a single shred of evidence that did not rely on a broad interpretaion (to say the least) of the writings in question.

Simple...because values is in highest regard. Isn't mentioned that our body is God's temple and that it should be respected. No, this is isn't hypocrisy and no one's forcing any one to comply, just an answer to a question.

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