Why would a woman enter a relationship with a married man who lives in another state?

Answer 1

Woman or man, they simply get lonely and want to meet someone. Sometimes it's easier to meet someone over IMing (not a good idea because you never know who is at the other end) and then emailing each other and it can come to phoning each other. Loneliness is the worse thing to deal with in life. She may have been on a holiday; visited relatives or a friend and met this man. Her biggest mistake is being in love with a married man. Decent women have a code between them that they don't go after other women's husbands and simply don't date married men no matter what his excuse is about his wife. There is a very low percentage that married men will run to their mistress after any breakup with the wife because he will want his freedom and not want to get tied up in another relationship so quickly. The mistress usually loses out. This woman has to sort her own life out. She's an adult, she knows it's not right dating a married man and she already knows she is playing second fiddle to his wife. Some men simply want a little fun on the side, but the bubble will eventually burst. He may become bored with her and dump her or the wife finds out and dumps him. This doesn't mean by any stretch of the imagination that this will release him from his wife in order to marry his mistress. Being a mistress to a married man is no different than being a prostitute and women can argue that until they are blue in the face, but it's true. Women who date married men sometimes do so because they are well aware they don't have to fear commitment and just want to have a fling and fun. Other women become seriously in love with a married man. Either way the mistress generally loses and she'll have a lot of regrets to deal with during the aftermath.