I think the key word here is ABUSER. He is doing it to draw you back in, hurt you, throw you into confusion and to keep abusing you, which it seems is working. Do not let him back in.
she misses you
Dump her!!
its cause she still loves you or she misses talk-in to you
If you were on a no-contact period with your girlfriend after having a fight and she made contact after 20 days then she probably misses you and wants to reconcile.
The reason why hes suddenly having the urge to contact you is because most likely the relationship he left you for is probably not goin so well and now he misses what he could have had with you.
It may mean that she truly misses you. The best way to find out how she is feeling is to ask her.
Cheating
Lips of an Angel by Hinder
Stare at her. Tell her. Be smart
If she says she misses you then she's probably busy or something. Why don't you just call/text her ask her.
the best answer is because he/she misses him if they had a relationship together
* Since they aren't her children and yours, then she probably misses the children, but also misses you. Yes, I would say there is a good chance you could get back together again. Have someone babysit the children one evening and take her out for a nice dinner and talk about your relationship and what her feelings are about your relationship. Listen well! If you both really love each other than by communicating both your feelings you could well possibly work out the kinks in your relationship.