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Why would you change your life if your husband is the one who had the affair?
Mgodat
- If you wanted to make your marriage work then it is possible your husband was unhappy in the marriage (perhaps you were too) and had poor communication skills. By seeing a marriage counselor they can teach the couple the tools of communicating without arguing so that they can talk over any problems that may come up in their marriage and also to get to know each other better by expressing how they feel when they are having a problem. When a man or woman have a first time affair they do so because they may feel there is something missing that they long for such as feelings of loneliness; poor sex life; not speaking to each other; arguing too often; one or both spouses are too busy to be around the other. Cheating is wrong and not the answer to resolve problems in a marriage. Marriage is not for sissies and it takes hard work to balance life between two different personalities and make that marriage strong.
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Can you forgive your husband forget the affair and carry on with your life comfortably?
yes
What husband does if he comes to know about wife's affair?
ANSWER:He will be heart broken because his life that he thought was only a lie. It doesn't matter if it's a wife or a husband, when one of us cross that path of betrayal, our life will change and we can not take it back anymore. Trust, respect, and love is what we lost.
Why would your husband want you back after his affair broke up with him?
This happens quite often. He wants a woman in his life and you're available. He will say he's sorry, but he isn't. If the affair had continued he would still be with her. Be very careful about trusting him. If they cheat once, they will cheat again.
Is a sex life ever the same for a married couple if the husband has cheated on his wife?
I'm afraid not, because the wife will have the lingering notion and it will affect her ability to perform to her husband. Two scenario for this one is, if this couple stays together, the wife is the one that will experience the flashback of what her husband did. She will wonder how her husband made love to his affair partner. She will wonder how his affair partner satisfy her husband. This is one thing that most husband who had the affair never thought of, how it will affect and destroy his wife.
When the wife finds out and the husband turns on the mistress?
ANSWER:Are you talking about the wife discovered her husband's affair? If she did and her husband made a choice of going to his mistress, the answer is right in front of you. Your husband pick the other woman and I know its sad after what you've been through. Now you must think about you now, and make a decision to do the right thing.Let me tell you what had happen to me, I discovered the man I marry's affair. My children and I was shock and our world change that moment I caught him. Instead of being concerned that I discovered his affair, he was more concerned on calling his mistress and warned her that I knew what's going on. And this is the man I spent 2 decade of my life waiting for him and making his life comfortable.
Can ex husband change life insurance?
An ex husband can change his life insurance beneficiary IF there is no court order for him to maintain it as it was during the marriage..from a life agent of 24 years
If a wife caught her husband cheating would she think of his ex mistress and what he did with her everytime she saw or heard the word affair?
Absolutely, especially for the first few months or even a year. The reality of your husband's affair will hit you like a brick and your life already change. The word "affair" is not your big concern, it will be some date of the month when your husband said that his working late but now you know it wasn't. Even watching tv and it's all about infidelity, this will take you down even you don't want to feel it. The betrayal and trust that your husband broken between the two of you will be hard to give back. This will be the fight for your life to how strong you are when it comes to pain. Remember not only the word "affair" but it can also be the smell, special date, some movie on t.v. and a lot more. If it help I was and still on the same place as you are even mine was 3 years ago.
Is it wise to tell you husband you are having affair?
The question shouldn't be 'is it wise to tell my husband I'm having an affair,' but why are you having the affair? If life is too intolerable for you living with your husband then have the guts to face it and not hurt his feelings by being irresponsible and selfish by hurting his feelings because one day he will find out. Once you have broken that bond of trust then in many cases there is no salvaging the marriage. Put yourself in his shoes. You are having an affair because something is missing in your marriage and neither you or your husband appear to have made much of an effort to communicate better or get marriage counseling. Wives or husbands can always go for separation and strike out on their own to clear their minds as to what they really do want in life. By having this affair you are not going to fill the hole you feel in yourself and it could lead to other affairs. It is up to you to decide if you continue the affair behind your husband's back, but if you do be prepared for the reality you could be losing someone very precious in your life.
If my husband is deported can i go with him i am a us if my husband is deported can i go with him?
you can go but get ready for a life change
When did agatha divorce her first husband?
Agatha Christie divorced her first husband, Archibald Christie, in 1928 after learning of his affair with another woman. This event had a significant impact on her life and writing.
Change is the law of life but every change is not a welcome affair?
i think that change is there every where in life seasons change,day changes into night and so on but some changes are within our control if we consider them seriously we can win over them.
How can your husband say he loves you and then break up with you after he gets caught in a 3 year affair he says he loves you not her but was having sex with her and she does not want him any longer?
If your husband truly loved you he would be having a three year affair. He is playing with your feelings and that of his mistress. He is either lying about the break up or she could possibly have had enough of him and walked away. The possibilities of your husband still having a relationship with his mistress is high. You have the power to change your life and communicate to him that you have had enough of his game playing and to hit the bricks! Let him know that you have a life too and intend on moving on from him. So far he has had things his way and if you tell him you are leaving the situation it may make him stop and think and if he doesn't stop having the affair then it's better you know now so you can move on with your life as there is someone much better out there for you that you deserve. Stand up for yourself and don't feel you can't make it in this world without a man in your life.
