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Why would your ex-abusive husband be mad that you made amends with him and that you want to put the past behind you and move on?
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∙ 18y ago
Abusers are fighters and controllers and they want that control back. They are miserable and spineless people and there is one thing they can't handle "peace in a relationship." If we need to put a label to this, abusers need psychological help, but since they refuse to admit there is anything wrong with themselves and it's everyone else's problem, then they rarely go for any treatment. He doesn't want you as his wife or best friend or even forgiveness, he wants to get back to the abusive behavior. Please leave and don't look back. IT WILL NOT GET BETTER! Because of the "Cycle of Abuse" please see the Abused Women's Center as there are excellent programs there for you to get back on your feet and tools to learn so you don't go back to your abuser or pick another abusive partner. Abusers brain-wash their victims. Good luck hon Merry Christmas Marcy Abusive husbands can be jealous of the current situation. Because he is now divorced and you are moving on, he needs someone to control and since you have taken that away, he is mad. He may feel you are still a part of him even though divorced and perhaps he does not want to move on and put the past behind him.
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∙ 18y ago
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Can you make amends with?
No, the question would have to indicate a person to make amends with.
What would you do if you had a problem with a work colleague?
Work it out! Be adult about it and talk to this person and make amends.
Should I break up with my fiance' who still cares a good deal for her ex husband?
If you love her then put the wedding off and sit down and talk about her ex husband. If she can't leave the past behind then it would be better if you moved on and left her behind. Yes, do that. It depends if she likes him to the point where she would maybe leave you for him.
Would you call a deceased husband an ex?
No, you would call him your recently departed husband, or your deceased husband.
Your Husband broke someones window on a golf course are you liable?
Out of common courtesy, and good sportsmanship, your husband should offer to replace the broken window. Whether or not he is liable is not the issue - and chances are that the one with the broken window is covered by his own insurance - for the good of the game and the respect of those who live nearby, own up to it and make amends. Put yourself in that homeowners shoes ... and ask yourself how you would feel if it was you with the broken window.
How can you get husband to make love to you from behind?
You could try asking him if he'd like to try it that way. Simply just say that you would like to try new things.
What would you call your sister's husband?
You would call your sister's husband your brother-in-law.
How are you related to your husband's sister's husband?
You aren't related by blood, however, he would be referred to as Uncle.
What relation are you to your cousin's husband?
You are not related to your cousin's husband. He would simply be "My cousin's husband."
Does your husband really in love with the other woman or is it just lust or infatuation?
It doesn't matter why he cheated, but the fact he cheated that would enough for me. I would hand him his suitcase and lock the door behind him. Once a cheater always a cheater.
What would your daughter's husband be to you?
Your daughter's husband is your son-in-law.
Why would your brother girlfriend flirt with your husband behind your back?
perhaps she's looking for an ego boost. Yes and there is the possibility that she wants to have a fully fledged affair with him. But then why would she want that? girls like that usually go and tell others that the guy hit on her. All you need to do is tell your husband how you feel about this honestly. he should understand/side with you.
