If she's your ex and you haven't been doing anything to make her think you want to get back together (or at least "hook up"), then she's probably doing it to mess with your mind.
You'll have to investigate further (if you care) to find out what form the mind-messing is taking; she may want to get back together with you, she may want The D but feel it would be unladylike to say that, she may just want you to start wanting her again so she can dump you publically to humiliate you.
Maybe she wants to see you? Friends see each other every now and then. Its not nice to blow people off. Maybe she legitimately cares about you as a person and wants to see how you are doing since you don't have the courtesy to let her know otherwise.
Shes desperate or she wants to get some or she thinks your still cute.
No offense for the desperate thing some girls just act crazy in situations like yours. So good luck.
that he likes and maybe loves you, or meaning he ONLY wants you as his girlfriend- sometimes instead of saying he only wants you, he would ask if you would like to go steady, which means neither of you will have another girlfriend/boyfriend or go on dates with other people
Only when she wants you to.
Most likely because she doesn't want a physical relationship —> She doesn't want to have sex.
Just tell her how you feel and then maybe get her a present with a little note saying:I Love you please be my girlfriend. and put a little love heart...she will understand then. =-)(-=
be friends with her she might get back with you
If your mother is generally a fair person and she wants you to breakup with your girlfriend then she has already told you the reasons why. If not then sit down and communicate with her and express how you feel about your girlfriend. Your mother loves you and wants only the best for you. You need to ask yourself if your girlfriend is worth defending. If she loves you; is kind; considerate; loyal and gets along with your friends and you neither of you are too young then have that conversation with your mother.
Only if you want to be his girlfriend. it does if u say yes
Anyone that would look up another person after 20 years after a break up is up to something and is probably on the rebound or just wants someone in their life for a little while. Tell this ex girlfriend you have enough friends and to hit the road.
You know your girlfriend wants you when she is affectionate with you, wants to spend time with you, and loves you.
this means absolutely nothing all he wants to do is be friends with you. or he wants to get his current girlfriend to be jealous by setting you up thinking that he wants to get back together with you so my only advise is to stay away!!!!!!
I would say if he only wants to be friends with benefits that he's interested in something and it isn't your personality. I'd get rid of him - and those benefits. If he doesn't want to make you his girlfriend but just wants to make out with you, that sucks. You deserve better!
Ask her! Only way, really. (: