There are probably as many reasons as you can imagine. Sometimes, the father leaves for a "short while", to get himself together....but time passes, he feels bad for not being there....scared of the repercussions of disapearing etc. Knowing he is alive and where he lives, maybe a possible contact with him might help you put this event at peace. Remember, there are no "good" or "bad" reasons, there are just reasons and events. Try and contact him with an open mind. The biggest advantage to doing this now is to do it before he dies....Then, you might never get answers. Good luck. Some parents are narcissists. When the family no longer provides them with narcissistic supply (attention, adulation, admiration) - they move on to "greener pastures".
You have the visitation rights that were established in the divorce, and you have no custody rights.
The mother, unless proven to be unfit or incpable of caring for the children, and regardless of her marital status, invariably gets custody after a divorce.
YES, IF YOU ARE GOING THROUGH A DIVORCE, YOU NEED TO ASK FOR CUSTODY AS PART OF THE DIVORCE SETTLEMENT. THIS WOULD BE THE BEST TIME TO DO IT BECAUSE IF SOCIAL SERVICES ALREADY TOOK THE CHILDREN FROM THE MOTHER , THE JUDGE WOULD EASILY GRANT YOU CUSTODY THE CHILDREN.
No. She won't abandon them. But a human mother might, if you handle her children. Don't do it. It pisses moms off, seriously.
exactly the same as the father
It would be cruel to file abandonment charges against the father simply because he had no way of picking the child up. Arrangements could have been made. It is time both parents thought of the child and not themselves. If the father tried his best then accept it; if he is a dead beat father and the mother cannot rely on the father then file abandonment charges.
In most cases the children will stay with their mother even though the father has a legal deportation.
file for divorce and ask for custody of the children, but be prepared to hear in court whatever reason he has for wanting to get himself and the children away from you, and be ready to defend yourself.
no
the father and mother get divorce and mother fight father so he doesnt see the baby
they can divorce or the father can leave the family.
When your mother remarries a man he becomes your stepfather (assuming you are son or daugther)