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Will your husband cheating on you help get your marriage back on track since you cheated first?
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∙ 14y ago
- Two wrongs don't make a right. People are human and make mistakes and if a person cheats once (although it is wrong) they may well never cheat again and regret their actions. For your husband to believe your cheating has led to the 'gates of glory' opening regarding seeing another woman he is very confused. Both of you should communicate with each other and perhaps seek legal marriage counseling to try and heal the hurt your husband must feel because you cheated on him or, both of you have to come to the realization that you may not love each other and that is what caused you to seek love with someone else. Both of you hold the key to your relationship.
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The man you left your husband for about 9 years ago he keeps on cheating on you this just started about a year ago you cheated on him first about 6 years ago but you left he has cheated about 3 time t?
U r messed up that is NOT a good marriage.
If your are divorced due to ex husband cheating and overall unhappiness in the marriage but he wont give up on you still want reconciliation threatening suicide what do you do?
sit down and talk to him and see why he cheated. only if that was the first time he cheated but if not call police and tell them what is going on.
What is the probability of a man who cheated on his wife and left cheating on the new wife?
Answer It depends on the man. Some men may have had a first unsuccessful marriage and chose to cheat (not the answer to a marriage problem) or, he loves women and can't commit. Only you know his personality. Since you are asking this question then you must have some doubts from suspicious actions. When in doubt follow him! That's how I caught my first husband cheating on me and I found out he had cheated on me several times before this.
Should cheating husbands be forgiven?
Humans simply are not perfect and if it is the first time the husband has cheated and he is remorseful then yes, he should be forgiven, but marriage counseling is a must along with the husband having to earn that bond of trust back with his spouse. If the husband is a continuous cheater then no, he should not be forgiven.
Should you be with your best friend even though it didnt work the first time and he has a girlfriend who cheated and your husband cheated on you?
I'm not sure as to what the cheating husband has to do with things, but yes. Definitely. The best idea for this situation is to cheat on the Girlfriend so that he can feel the same struugle of being cheated on so that it can bring you two closer in friendship.
What do you call someone who has been disloyal in their marriage?
It's called cheating and I can come up with serveral names, but can't type it on the board. My first husband cheated on me and I managed to find several savory words for him, but it boils down to the fact they are spineless 'cheaters.' Sarkazz: Adulterer, from the word adultery which is the word for someone cheating on a spouse.
Would you be considered a fool for wanting to fix your marriage after your husbands infidelity?
If you are fairly sure your husband has not continuously cheated and this is the first time he has strayed then no, you wouldn't be a fool for trying to save your marriage. Sit down and talk to your husband and hopefully he will agree to go to marriage counseling. Explain to him that the psychologist is not there to blame either spouse, but to give them tools to strengthen their marriage and only there to point out where you are going wrong when communicating with each other. Communication skills and talking about each other's feelings are a necessity in any good marriage. If your husband is constantly cheating then this is a red flag that he will continue to do so and it would be to your best interest to dissolve the marriage and move on in your life.
How do you get my ex husband back when i was the one that cheated?
If you cheated on your husband then that means you did not love him in the first place. If you truly loved him, you would not have cheated. So in the end, basically your actions are irreversible.
Why cheating ruins trust in marriage?
Vows were taken in a marriage to love and honor and the couple are expected to stay together for the rest of their lives. When a spouse cheats they break this bond of trust and it is extremely difficult to gain back if the spouse being cheated on doesn't ask for a divorce first. Cheating is sleazy; selfish and hurts not only the husband or wife; but any children they have and perhaps members of both sides of the family. When a spouse cheats they are not only cheating, but they are lying to their spouse.
Why repair a marriage after a husband has cheated?
Wouldn't it be wonderful if humans were perfect, but reality shows none of us are perfect and our main goal is learning from our mistakes. If your husband has never cheated before and this is the first time and he regrets his indiscretion then it is worth another chance to resolve the problems he has in the marriage. Communication skills are a must in a marriage and it appears both of you need to hone up on these skills. Agreed, cheating is a weakness when the person cheating cannot be honest with themselves or with their partner and want their cake and eat it too ... the wife and the woman they are having an affair with. Why? That is what the two of you need to discuss and base a good marriage on. There are thousands of couples going through what you are going through and many of them communicate and seek marriage counseling and manage to save their marriage. In the 21st century it appears if a partner even goes off the road and into the ditch of life once then the spouse uses it as an excuse and is only too keen on ending a marriage (less work) and moving on. Successful marriages take a lot of work and 'marriage isn't for sissies.'
What would you do with your cheating husband?
You can file a charge against him for cheating and divorce him. But first be sure that he is cheating on you.
What's the percentage of cheating couples?
22% of married men have cheated on their wives and 14% of married women have cheated on their husbands, according to current data. The data is inaccurate, because most couples will not admit to cheating in the first place.
