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Would a narcissist stay with you for ten years and then turn around and tell you he will kill himself if he has to stay with you and make you feel like everything wrong in his life is your fault?
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∙ 16y ago
YES!!! They of course would do this. The one I was with made me feel (through odd comments, manipulation and lies, headgames) that I was barely loveable and that any minute he might bail. He would make me feel all the time (except during honeymoon stage) that at any minute he would dump me. He made me feel awfull. He told me I was weird and crazy when I would show any insight. He was horrible. This guy is doing that to you. Hes an abuser. Sounds like an abuser. check out: www.safehorizon.org Naccissists rarely entertain thoughts of suicide, especially when it comes to leaving a person - they just leave. This person sounds like they have some serious problems. You could tell him it's his choice - either leave or commit suicide - just as long as he gets out of your life. I know, that sounds cruel, but spineless manipulators who blame people for everything that is wrong in their life need to be given the boot and pronto.
ANSWER This is EXACTLY what the narcissist in my life does. We have been together just over a year. I really am just trying to get the courage to bail out of the relationship, but don't want to be lonely all over again. Anyway... yes, he is constantly telling me he wants to comit suicide. On the other hand he constantly tells me he wants rid of me as well, but if I try to end it, he comes crawling back every time, crying how much he has missed me. I am meant to jump and return calls, texts, etc. immediately, yet he can leave me dangling for whole days. it's all just control. Like your narcissist, mine doesn't really care what attention he's getting, good or bad, just as long as it's attention! Start believing that it's his fault, NOT your's! (And yes, I know I need to heed my own advice!!)
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What do you call a person who praises himself?
You would call a person who praises himself a lot a narcissist.
What is a person who loves himself called?
A narcissist and more extreme would be psychopath
What do you think is wrong with a person that acts like they have mastered everything in the world?
They are very full of themselves and hard to be around. I would confrunt them and tell them how they are acting or just avoid them and go on with your day. This person may be a narcissist because this is typical narcissistic behavior. Narcissist like to think they know everything and cant stand others around them to be smart or question them. A narcissist will tell a baker how to bake, a teacher how to teach ect...or they will edit a good answer because they didn't write it, nobody else's opinion is any good to a narcissist, actually its an insult to them that you don't agree with them. I agree with the previous post....avoid them.
Why would a narcissist boyfriend say to his girlfriend you are a lost soul?
Because he is projecting how he feels about himself on her. It's as simple as that.
Does a narcissist purposely try to hurt you and why?
no. a sadist would want to hurt you. a narcissist would want to be hurt.
If you drew a circle that went around everything would there be an outside?
no if it were drawn around everything there would not be an outside
Why would a narcissist want to be alone?
As long as a narcissist has a mirror, they are with the person they love the most. The narcissist does not want his real self to be revealed. He/she only wants to be acknowledged as superior and better then he/she really is. So every time he/she is around other people, there will always be a chance someone recognising him as a phony, because he/she will be playing a role. So when he does not feel strong and confident enough, he withdraws to be with the one and only person he trusts to gladly be fooled - hem/herself. A narcissist can only hide himself the most from himself, because he will cooperate perfectly in this game of fooling himself. So in fact, a narcissist is not really hiding himself from others, he is hiding from people so he does not have to be confronted with himself, the person he in fact is ashamed of. That's why you NEED to learn to love yourself as you are!!! With all your weaknesses, all your troubles etc... In fact you are not weak at all and you'll gain strength by appreciating yourself. Good luck! By the way, I used to be a narcissist 13 years ago and now I'm healed, I can only understand narcissists by memories of how I used to think. Otherwise I am as puzzled and stunned by their behavior as anyone else.
Why would your ex narcissist boyfriend get his friend to tell you he has 2 new girlfriends?
You answered it yourself... he is your ex, but not ex-narcissistic. he will always have the need to see himself as the center of attention. it has nothing to do with you, only himself.
Can a narcissist be friends with another narcissist?
Probably not, they would fight over mirror time. ;)
Why would a narcissist let her husband make fun of her and belittle her in public and all she can say is that he is only jokeing?
She wouldn't. That is not a reaction that a narcissist would have.
Can a codependent and a narcissist be together?
Why would ANYONE want to be with a narcissist? A codependent would be about the only type of personality that could tolerate being with a narcissist, and they will pay a terrible price. Dump the narcissist and get some help with the codependency. ACOA, CODA, Al-anon and Nar-anon are as close as your telephone.
Can a narcissist show appreciation?
A narcissist cannot show appreciation. A narcissist is a person who looks at themselves as higher than others, or believing they can do any task better than others, so for a narcissist to show appreciation would be very odd.
