then your both screwed
she did but she was cheated on by Casey Aldridge and they were also engaged to each other.
NO
Sounds like Both of you don't know what you want, you need to set down togather and open up with each other, both need to tell what they want in the relationship, then work on it.
Actually you both probably deserve each other. According to your story, you both have cheated on each other and now you want 'Dear Abby' (Answers) to solve your problem (dilemma). It sounds as if you want to go back to your (cheating) boyfriend who is noncommittal because he is fun to be with, but you have gone out with other guys and have had sex with them. Oh, I know you did it because you both weren't together OFFICIALLY. 'Dear Abby' (Answers) cannot solve your problem only you can.Stay and the cheating cycle will continue and it will probably get worse. No matter what each of you promise.Walk away is probably the best solution since you have doubts and regrets. You will always wonder in your mind, "Is he cheating on me." Maybe you can get a new start with someone new, but it will be a challenge since you also have cheated. Find a partner wherein both of you can trust each other and commit to be faithful.never stay
If you have both cheated on each other then you don't truly love each other.relationships are meant to find you happiness, if you love someone and you are together its a relationship, if you are together but don't love each other its a false relationship.Whats the point if you are not truly happy? You need to go your separate ways that would be the best thing.After all whats a relationship without love????????
If your boyfriend has never cheated before and this is his first time then 'to err is human' and if you decide to give him a chance then you both need to learn good communication skills to enable you to work on your relationship which means to discuss any problems you have in your relationship; be there for each other and expect loyalty and honesty. If your boyfriend is either not willing to work with you on this or, he has cheated more than once then break up with him because you can do a whole lot better. All men do not cheat.
when you both know that you love each other and you're sure of it
Yes, if both parties have admitted their faults to each other, there can be a relationship still for the two, but it still won't be easy, as there is a trust issue.
actually yes, the both cheated on each other
you can call each other boyfriend and girlfriend without going on a date, even if you have only both established clearly that you each have feelings for each other.
Leave them both and stop talking to them
Then get back together! What's stopping you?