You love your husband but have fallen OUT of love with him What can you do and what does this mean?

Answer 1

* Love has never been defined. There are so many different types of love: family, siblings, friends, spouses. You actually still do love your husband, but the zing has gone out of your marriage and with the stress of every day life it's extremely important to communicate well with each other and take time out to do things together. It could be a simple walk in the park; a dinner and movie; having guests over for dinner and drinks. You probably need to put the romance back into your marriage and if you can afford it either go away for a romantic weekend of travel somewhere you both would enjoy. When two people get married there is the 'honeymoon stage' and within a year or so when reality sets in a little of the magic dissipates and then comes children and that keeps especially the mother on her toes 24/7. She's tired and with many couples sex is not the main subject (for the woman in many cases) and anywhere from 38 to 50 women can go through peri menopause and menopause and this generally can cause women's libidos to go into low drive because of the hormonal changes. Men from around the age of 40 have Andropause similar to women's Menopause, but not as dramatic. As children leave the home suddenly both spouses are left staring at each other (the empty nest syndrome) and they realize with their busy lives they have lost contact with each other so they have to communicate what each one wants and how to spice up their marriage. Love is not lost! Hang in there and start communicating with your husband. If you decide you want to move on then realize you will be faced with the same issues with your next partner .. oh yes, it will be absolute magic at first, but then comes those stages in life and you've just dragged your problems along with you.