You still think about your ex girlfriend and I'm married but you love your wife Is there any advice for you?

Answer 1

It's normal to think and fantasize what could have been, but you are focusing only on the good times - otherwise you two wouldn't have broken up. My best advice is to zero in on the reasons why you and your ex didn't end up together. Look...marriage can get boring. That's just a fact of life. If you have children, that adds stress to any relationship and magnifies the urge to escape. Believe me, I've been there. The way I survived (and I've been married for 25 years-not all blissful) is to think about what made you fall in love with your wife in the first place. Try to become that "lover" for her again. Women respond better to men's attentiveness, compliments, and affection rather than overt sexuality. Give it a try. You may be surprised. This is what my husband did, and it turned me around when I was emotionally out the door.