Your 10 year old son has a 116 on his IQ test how can you encourage him?

Answer 1

Since the average person's IQ ranges from 90 - 110, your son is a bit above average intelligence. But don't push him, or make him feel self conscious or 'different'. And it is equally important to teach him that he is not 'above' or better than other children, either. But he does need to realize that he has a wonderful gift, and that he needs to use that gift to the best of his ability. Just give positive reinforcement when he does show that he is doing his best. You can do this by rewarding him with things he likes, but the best way is simple praise. Children really shouldn't be "rewarded" with gifts or money by doing what they are required to do in school, and should want to do, but an ocassional treat is fine. But I've found the best motivator is to show them how proud you are of them, but not in a way that makes them feel pressured. Just let him know you are proud of him no matter what his IQ is, and that you love him for himself. This will hopefully encourage him to do his best, but at the same time not make him feel pressured or 'different' from other children. I strongly advise teaching him good study habits, otherwise he will easily become bored in school and lose interest, and not achieve his full potential. You can read more on the "View Discussion" page.

Answer

Since your son is still very young, the IQ test may not be accurate. In any case, the best things you can do for your son are to build his character--teach him how to stick with things that he starts, so that he will have skills in dealing with frustration. Make sure he has chores and responsibilities to complete around the house. He will need to have self confidence and assurance in his own abilities. Boy Scouts is excellent for helping to develop leadership skills, so he can work with others and be kind to them. My kids started doing their own laundry and making their lunches at ten, helping with shopping and meal planning, among other things. Broaden his outlook by involving him in sports, reading and other areas besides those that come easily to him. Spend time talking about ideas; if he comes up with a good way to do something, try it out.

Answer 2

Encourage him by praising his intelligence and reinforcing the idea that everyone has unique strengths. Provide him with educational resources and opportunities to continue challenging himself and exploring his interests. Foster a growth mindset by emphasizing the value of effort and perseverance in achieving goals.