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Your abusive partner always promises to get help but this has been going on for eleven years now will he ever change?
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∙ 12y ago
Honey for that long, I would of left when he first hit me. No matter what if a guy hits you even if he apoligises, he will keep going.
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∙ 12y ago
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Do abusive men always emotionally abuse their partner or is there a girl for whom they will change?
A person's pattern of abuse is less dependent upon the person they are in a relationship with and more dependent on them self. The solution closest to what you are asking about is a person who can help promote a desire for the abuser to change themselves, but this requires that they want to change. In short you can do nothing unless everyone is committed to change. Often professional help such as consoling may be required.
Are you in an abusive relationship if your boyfriend has cheated and he was in utter shock when you did and how do you get him to change?
No, you aren't in an abusive relationship, but both of you are very immature. Just because one partner cheats doesn't give the other partner the right to do the same thing. If we aren't true to ourselves (we are our own best friend) then the relationships or anything else you endeavor in life is a waste of time. It's time for both of you to move on in different directions. Marcy
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Is it possible that your ex abusive husband to change when he remarried and shows stable signs of not being abusive to his second wife?
Possible, but not likely for him to change on his own without serious counseling.
What type of woman does an emotionally abusive man seek?
An abusive man (emotional,physical, etc.) will seek insecure woman.Woman who are not independant. Someone to take care of their needs.And that is it, someone to satisfy their needs. An abusive man can not change, a woman can not change him. He has to change himself. He had to do it all alone, if he really wants to recover.I really wish all the ladies in abusive relationships strength. That is what they need to leave.
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You cannot change the partner of it. Unless you use Alisa as your person then the original main character would be your partner. Hope the helped. :)
How can a woman with a history of abuse dissuade herself of the misconception that her present non-abusive partner will be abusive so that she does not sabotage the potentially healthy relationship?
Abusive behavior directed at a non-abusive partner isn't triggered by any misconception that her partner will be abusive. The abusive behavior is more like an immediate, reflexive defensive act against even the slightest hint or suggestion that a hurtful action may be forthcoming from the "nonabusive" partner, and all this according to a very negative and even paranoid interpretation by the woman of her non-abusive partner's behavior. And then she may never recognize or acknowledge her own abusive behavior unless by some crisis or extraordinary instant of enlightenment she finally sees her behavior as it is. But that isn't enough. She couldn't correct her "misconception" by her self, but by steadfastly and steadily working through the problem in therapy. Some abusers adamantly deny doing any of their abusive acts and will likedly never change. The victims of prolonged, persistent, and sadistic abuse often experience Post Traumatic stress Disorder (PTSD) and other, related, reactions. You need professional help to overcome these after-effects. Joining an online or offline support group also helps. I think you and your partner both need counseling. Especially you. If you have any kids, they need it as much as you do. That is probably the only way to get over your fear. You probably won't be able to do it on your own. It's not your fault, it's just the way the mind works. I totally know how this woman feels..... She must go and seek professional help, to help restructure the way she sees things...or else the fear will dictate her life. I wish her the best and hope that past abusers will not ruin her life. Remind her that she does not need to be ashamed to go for counceling....It part of the process to healing. c.
