answersLogoWhite

0


Best Answer

If you feel you or your children may be in danger then you need to leave, quickly and quietly. I suggest you contact a domestic abuse helpline for more professional support and information. Some things are more inmportant than material possessions and even a roof over your head. Seek refuge in a safe family members home and if he persists in any form of abuse or unwanted contact then seek help from the police and a lawyer and get yourself a court injunction.

User Avatar

Wiki User

15y ago
This answer is:
User Avatar

Add your answer:

Earn +20 pts
Q: Your mate is emotionally abusive and you are unhappy in this relationship how do you get him to leave without hurting you or your kids?
Write your answer...
Submit
Still have questions?
magnify glass
imp
Related questions

Unhappy in a relationship?

if you are unhappy in your relationship than you must be one of the most happiest couples in the whole world. keep being unhappy and everything is all right. ;)


Your husband refuses to stop drinking after 20 years of marriage you are very unhappy should you just divorce him even if he's not physically abusive.?

If you are unhappy in your marriage and there are no reasons for you to stay married to him - sure go ahead and divorce him.


Do abusers sometimes threaten to end the relationship or pretend they aren't quite sure if they want you anymore?

Abusers are about control and mind-bending games. They love to "toy" with their victim (and you are a victim!) They are very unhappy with themselves and don't know why, so their pleasure is picking on the ones close to them. Even parents, children and the elderly can be mentally or physically abused. If any abuser threatens to end the relationship tell them to tie a red bow on their butt and head out the door or the victim should leave. Get rid of anyone that is abusive because they will seldom seek counseling and the environment will only get worse for the victim. If a victim chooses to stay with their abuser (women can be abusive to men as well) the victim will become isolated from family and friends and only have a life of misery. Love is not about hurting your partner.


Why does the guy you like mess with you when he has a girlfriend?

It could be that he is unhappy in the current relationship. It could be that the girlfried he has doesnt meet his needs. But he could also just be a player. Either way its not right what he is doing and if he is unhappy in his current relationship then should not be in it.


You feel unhappy an not sure why this is affecting your relationship what should you do?

well, if you are a women and you are unhappy all the time, your partner of the opposite sex may think you are unhappy with your relationship. so try doing something like a girls night in or if your partner thinks you are unhappy with the relationship,, go to a more racy, sexalicious naughty, bad girl inside of you, if you know what i mean,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,SEX. you take off your clothes, put some heels on, he takes off his clothes, put on some candles, or inside the bathtub.


My bf seems to not care about me I'm still emotionally attached because I still care and don't understand How can I get him to realize what he has or how to move on?

Maybe try talking to him it might seem to you that he doesn't seem to care although something could be on his mind or something. The best thing to do in any relationship is to talk to them, tell them how you feel and listen to them as well. Even in the end if he has moved on it is best to know and let the relationship end, there is no point being with someone that is unhappy being in a relationship with you.


What should you do if you are unhappy with the way things are going in your relationship but even if you ignore or avoid the person you still love them?

Any two people can love eachother. It takes mature and committed people to make a relationship work. Loving a person doesn't matter if you are generally unhappy in the relationship. If the relationship is worth saving, it is time to sit down and have a talk with your partner and go into 'couples therapy.'


What should you do if you're in a relationship where you're both unhappy and you always fight about stupid things and now at your work there's a guy who always makes you laugh and brightens your day?

If evidently that happens, tell the person you are in the relationship with the truth, tell them that you are unhappy, and that you want to make them happy, and that is to let them go.


Are all relationships unequal?

No. If you are in an unequal relationship and are unhappy you are doing something wrong. Do not pass GO, do not collect 200$.


Why is my partner sexually violent?

Only THEY can answer that truthfully ! If you're in a violent relationship - and you're unhappy... seek help NOW to get out !


When a woman finds out the man she is in a relationship with is married but knows he is unhappy what should she do?

if he is unhappy then he needs to divorce his wife and the other woman should wait until some paperwork gets filed before she gets to serious.


Its true that the person can live unhappy rest of his life?

if your not willing to make and find your own happiness then yes a person can be unhappy for the rest of their life Being unhappy for the rest of your life is not your fate but your choice. If you think that you are unhappy no more with the kind of life you have now, you have to do something about it. Unless otherwise you really wanted to be in that situation till your last breath. Life is unfair sometimes, but we have to deal and live with it by choosing the right decision to avoid hurting other people and much more of yourself.