he favors enzima wishing she was a boy
Okonkwo's daughter, Ezinma
Okonkwo asks to borrow yams to plant from Nwakibie. Okonkwo asks Obierika to store some of his yams and later sell some of them for money. He also asks Obierika to help build some buildings before he returns, except for the obi which must be built by the man himself.
Okonkwo and his second wife, Ekwefi, share a complex relationship that is more rooted in duty and societal expectations than romance. Although Okonkwo shows moments of care for Ekwefi and their daughter, Ezinma, his harsh demeanor often overshadows any potential for affection. Ekwefi, who has endured considerable hardship, possesses a deep emotional bond with her daughter that highlights her resilience rather than a romantic connection with Okonkwo. Overall, their relationship is strained and primarily defined by Okonkwo's rigid adherence to traditional gender roles.
Ezeani, priest of the Earth Goddess Ani, comes to visit Okonkwo to educate and shame him for breaking the week of peace, demanding restitution.Ogbuefi Ezeudu visits Okonkwo to warn him of Ikemefuna's impending death, warning him to not take part.Guests at Akueke's wedding come to visit Okonkwo to pay him respect; Okonkwo gives them two cocks as a gift.Obierika, Okonkwo's friend, comes to visit Okonkwo during his exile in Mbanta several times.Mr Brown tries to visit Okonkwo after Nwoye's conversion, but is threatened with death should he return.You could also say Chielo came to visit Okonkwo's compound, but that was to converse with her daughter Ezinma.
Ekwefi was a woman who loved wrestling, and fell in love with Okonkwo when she saw him throw Amalinze the Cat. She wanted to marry Okonkwo, but at the time, Okonkwo was too poor to marry. She ended up marrying another man, Anene, but after a couple years she ran away from him during the night to Okonkwo. Okonkwo took her and made love to her in his obi. Ekwefi became Okonkwo's second wife. Her love of wrestling remained. She bore child after child, but they all died during their early years until she had Ezinma. She treated her daughter Ezinma like a sister, as an equal. She continued to have children with Okonkwo, and fathered at least 10 children with him. Ekwefi often drew Okonkwo's rage, and was beaten by him occasionally. After one particular beating near the Festival of Yams, she made fun of Okonkwo's lack of prowess with a gun. This remark earned her a near-death experience, as Okonkwo discharged the gun at her, but did not end up hitting her. During one day, her daughter Ezinma was taken by the oracle Agbala's representative Chielo late at night. Worried for her daughter, she risked the wrath of the Gods by secretly following Chielo around the nine villages and back to her cave home where she communed with Agbala, all in very low light. Her daughter Ezinma also came down with the Iba or fever one day. She feared for Ezinma's death, but Ezinma managed to be healed by her father, Okonkwo. After Ezinma's iwi-uya was found, she felt much more relieved. Ekwefi continued to stay with Okonkwo, following him in exile to Mbanta, and then back home to Umuofia.
Okonkwo's daughter, Ezinma
Although not specifically mentioned, it can be guessed that Ekwefi is Okonkwo's favourite wife.Okonkwo originally wanted to take Ekwefi for his first wife, but he did not have enough money to pay for her dowry at the time.
Ekwefi gives Ezinma the meal of roasted plantains and palm-oil sauce, despite Okonkwo's warning that Ezinma should not eat too much of it. This delicacy is a symbol of Ekwefi's love for her daughter and her defiance of Okonkwo's strictness.
Chielo goes to Okonkwo's compound to bring Ezinma, her 'daughter' to speak with the goddess Agbala. The woman and girl end up traversing around the nine villages before ending up in the cave of the oracle.
Obierika invites Okonkwo to witness the negotiation of Akueke's bride price.Obierika tries to assuage Okonkwo's fears of Nwoye not being manly enough.Obierika does not mention Unoka, knowing the Okonkwo is still ashamed of him.Obierika does not fail to criticize Okonkwo for taking part in the sacrifice of Ikemefuna, having also declined to take part in that ceremony.Obierika invites Okonkwo's family to his daughter's wedding.Obierika console Okonkwo on his pending exile.Obierika helps with other friends to carry Okonkwo's yams to his barn. He is trusted to store these yams.Later on, he sells Okonkwo's yams and gives Okonkwo the money in Mbanta.Obierika again visit Okonkwo in Mbanta.Obierika is trusted and paid to build two huts in Okonkwo's old compound.Finally, he takes responsibility for the burying of his friend after he has desecrated himself.
Okonkwo's illness showed his vulnerability and fear of being seen as weak or inadequate in the eyes of his community. It highlighted his inner turmoil and the pressure he felt to live up to the expectations of masculinity and success in his society, which ultimately contributed to his tragic downfall.
Okonkwo asks to borrow yams to plant from Nwakibie. Okonkwo asks Obierika to store some of his yams and later sell some of them for money. He also asks Obierika to help build some buildings before he returns, except for the obi which must be built by the man himself.
Ezeani, priest of the Earth Goddess Ani, comes to visit Okonkwo to educate and shame him for breaking the week of peace, demanding restitution.Ogbuefi Ezeudu visits Okonkwo to warn him of Ikemefuna's impending death, warning him to not take part.Guests at Akueke's wedding come to visit Okonkwo to pay him respect; Okonkwo gives them two cocks as a gift.Obierika, Okonkwo's friend, comes to visit Okonkwo during his exile in Mbanta several times.Mr Brown tries to visit Okonkwo after Nwoye's conversion, but is threatened with death should he return.You could also say Chielo came to visit Okonkwo's compound, but that was to converse with her daughter Ezinma.
Ekwefi is Okonkwo's second wife in Chinua Achebe's novel "Things Fall Apart." She angers Okonkwo by disobeying his orders not to participate in the wrestling match for her daughter, Ezinma. Despite his wishes, she ignores Okonkwo's command and attends the match, leading to a heated argument between them.
When Ikemefuna falls ill and Okonkwo's daughter Ezinma brings food and medicine to him, it shows that Okonkwo's children respect Ikemefuna because they care for his well-being. They see him as a member of the family and show empathy and kindness towards him in his time of need.
"Okonkwo was a man." "Did you see that man, Okonkwo?" "You are my son. Okonkwo, I am your father!"
Ekwefi was a woman who loved wrestling, and fell in love with Okonkwo when she saw him throw Amalinze the Cat. She wanted to marry Okonkwo, but at the time, Okonkwo was too poor to marry. She ended up marrying another man, Anene, but after a couple years she ran away from him during the night to Okonkwo. Okonkwo took her and made love to her in his obi. Ekwefi became Okonkwo's second wife. Her love of wrestling remained. She bore child after child, but they all died during their early years until she had Ezinma. She treated her daughter Ezinma like a sister, as an equal. She continued to have children with Okonkwo, and fathered at least 10 children with him. Ekwefi often drew Okonkwo's rage, and was beaten by him occasionally. After one particular beating near the Festival of Yams, she made fun of Okonkwo's lack of prowess with a gun. This remark earned her a near-death experience, as Okonkwo discharged the gun at her, but did not end up hitting her. During one day, her daughter Ezinma was taken by the oracle Agbala's representative Chielo late at night. Worried for her daughter, she risked the wrath of the Gods by secretly following Chielo around the nine villages and back to her cave home where she communed with Agbala, all in very low light. Her daughter Ezinma also came down with the Iba or fever one day. She feared for Ezinma's death, but Ezinma managed to be healed by her father, Okonkwo. After Ezinma's iwi-uya was found, she felt much more relieved. Ekwefi continued to stay with Okonkwo, following him in exile to Mbanta, and then back home to Umuofia.