How can you tell if you guy friend is just your friend or if he likes you?

Answer 1

Sounds like you are both really shy and the friend is trying to get you together. Why not arrange a Pizza or Bowling date with your friend and this guy and his friend? Or go in a crowd if you all know the same people. Then you can talk to him in a crowd, no pressure, and if he likes you he will talk back. Good Luck

Answer 2

If you're in high school, you have a lot of time to go. While you can, have fun without dating. I am in high school, and I am dating my first boyfriend ever right now. I am not an antisocial person. I party all the time, I just do it without dating around, so its not anything to worry about.

But now to stop preaching. Normally, you can tell a guy likes you. If you can't, flirt a little and see how he responds. Most guys like you just because you talk to them. Try to get to know a guy. Walk up to someone and just talk to him about random stuff. Hang out with him outside of where you met him and you will probably be able to tell.

If a guy wants to hang out with just you, he likes you. If he takes a little extra time staring at you when you guys are talking, he likes you. If he stares at your lips, he likes you and wants to kiss you.

Answer 3

You can tell when one of your guy friends likes you because he will ussualy want to spend more time with you and will probrably pay attention to you more than most of your other guy friends do. If your still unsure about it try asking him if he has a crush on anyone, if he is hesitant to answer but doesnt give you the goods or says "no one" and pauses afterwards then changes topic realy quickly then he prolly ither likes you or likes someone you know or he thinks you know. If hes realy bold he will tell you flat out right there but dont count on it. Also see how he reacts when you mention other guys but dont make him think that your not interested in him by always talking about other guys (if you are interested in him that is). just make a comment once and see how he reacts. That should give you a pretty good idea. If all else fails you can try flirting to. Chances are if he does like you he will be thinking about it when hes with you so he wont act like your other guy friends that arnt interested. Good luck :) your friend, Ginj88

Answer 4

You can never be sure. Guys and girls send each other different signals with different meanings, and usually if neither comes out and say what they mean, the signals are mixed up. Ask yourself this: Are you two that close? Usually a guy feels more comfortable with a girl he knows and can relate with. If you're trying to gain his affection or push him in the 'closer than friends' direction, be sure its what you want. Being in a relationship doesn't always come the way it first seems, so get to know your friend a little better - even if you think you already do. Hang out on a Friday night, have a study session after school. Bring him a gift on his birthday. By that time you're thatclose, you'll know his signs and won't need an interpreter. Guys have many signals to pass on or give hints to an affection, and with each guy comes a different message and way to show it. If he's your friend, you should proceed with caution if your instincts tell you he's falling for you. Always trust your instincts, even if others tell you otherwise, but never take them too far. If he doesn't approach you, it usually means he's either shy with feelings or doesn't want to ruin your friendship with him. Even that being said, follow your instincts and you'll know whether or not he's been hit by cupid's arrow. After all, he's yourfriend. Good luck :)

Answer 5

I'm 11 and i like a guy but I'm sure he likes me back because even when I'm with different friends he still looks at me and he just looks at me all the time we go to the same school and church. so how can i tell if he likes me or just my friend

Answer 6

okay now that you have "proof" you need to get down to the facts. don't confront him! if he does like you he will be nervous, but that action would be considered as cocky and boastful. the best way is friend friend. ask around from his BEST friends. be truthful; (if your close with one of them) does he like me? i kind or like him too.. or because im not interested<- if that's the case, don't bring it up. just find out if he likes you.

Answer 7

The way they are with you if they flirt to much then obvisiouly there is some conncetion.

Answer 8

He tries to spend as much time with you as possible- only you. He looks straight into your eyes, and when he sees you his face immediately lights up.