This question is, why waste your life on someone like this. Most men seldom seek psychological counseling because they feel it's a form of weakness. Narcissists are over-bearing (even in a quiet manner) will take digs at their partner either in private, in front of family or friends (it's ever so sneaky most of the time.) They are controlling and self-centered. There is no way you can change him unless he wants to change himself and you will ALWAYS be to blame! You need to sit down and tell him flat out he goes for counseling or you're leaving! If he refuses then keep your promise and contact a lawyer to protect your rights. Go for a separation first until your head in more clear about what you want to do about this and if he doesn't change and you feel better without him then file for divorce. Remember ... when someone always makes you feel bad more often than they make you feel happy it's time to walk away. Why do you want to survive this. If its for the children, that has been shown it doesnt work that way. You are giving up being happy which you deserve like anyone else. If you cannot get the narcissist to get therapy or you do not go, things will not improve. You will either eventually snap or maybe he will. Get some help, take small steps every day to improve the situation and get the other person involved in the healing, if not, get out for yourself and your children(if any).
My initial responds to you was going to be no; however, lying is a classic trait of a Passive-Aggressive person.
Dump him. There r more fish in the sea. If he is aggressive then its not true love.
Passive-aggressive notes was created in 2007.
Passive-aggressive behavior is one of the narcissists' favorite tools.
Yes, you aren't supposed to be passive aggressive it's in the bible.
They get aggressive when you bother it alot.
aggressive
why are both passive and aggressive behaviours unproductive in a contflict situations
why are both passive and aggressive behaviours unproductive in a contflict situations
No. Repressed hostility is just that, anger that is suppressed. Passive/aggressive is someone who alternates between states of being passive and being angry.
because you're there in front of him being passive aggressive? how does he know when you're being a swan?
Passive Aggressive Behavior is part of being a Destructive Narcissist. They could do both.