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it is going to take a lot of faith and will power. I too was married to a mentally abusive husband, but at the time i left i was just recovering from having a fourth child and had no means of support. As much as i did not want to ask for public assistance(welfare) i took what i could get until i could better my situation. I did not allow myself to feel bad about leaving and i went to chucrh to help ease the pain. my husband would always tell me how no one was going to want a woman with four children and that i would be all alone and other things that he thought would lower my self esteem, yet i am now doing much better WITHOUT HIM and he's the one that is miserable. Believe in who you are. god has called us all for a special purpose in life and you should not allow someone else to let you miss out on being you! I hope that you believe in yourself because your children do! ctr Contact the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233 for assistance or visit the website and click on "Get Help". http://www.ndvh.org Please keep in mind that telephone and internet use can be monitored. Hi. Call a womens shelter. They are very good at these places. You will feel your power come back. They will tell you about housing and other available resources. Good luck.
What else can I help you with?
When should a woman leave her obsessive controlling verbally and mentally abusive husband?
Immediately. Reach out to a close friend or relative for help, and leave as soon as you can.
How do you deal with an abusive husband?
If you can leave him - do it now.
How do you succeed over the mentally abusive husband?
Tell your friends you need them to come with you to collect your stuff from your place and just leave. Then call the police and put a restraining order against him.
What do you do if your spouse is a control and abusive husband?
You get a divorce and leave the house, before it is to late !
What to do when you want to leave your husband who is a cheater and abusive to you but he has no where to go and you feel bad for him but he is bringing you down and you want him to leave?
You reach out for help, and you go.
How can one leave their mentally abusive spouse and not have to worry about losing their 2 kids to the spouse?
If you can prove that he's been mentally abusive (statements and letters from friends or family would help) then it would be up to a judge to decide whether the children should be subjected to a mentally abusive father. By the way, there are some who believe that allowing children to witness the physical or mental abuse between parents is actually a form of child abuse.
What can you do if your brother is giving your husband trouble about the way you believe?
Discuss it with your husband to decide if brother should be asked to leave; or if you are somewhere other than your home, if you and your husband should leave. No one has the right to interfere with your relationship with your husband (other than an abusive situation).
Defending yourself against an abusive husband?
---- Call the police, if the abuse continues, then leave him and never go back. ----
Why do verbally and mentally abusive men blame the fighting and problems on you and is it best to leave?
The person doing the abusing is always responsible for that abuse. Abusive people always place the responsibility on someone else, and they always will if they can get away with it. If a situation becomes physical, it's always time to leave.
What to do when you want your husband to leave and you are tired of his drug usage and abusive ways?
call the cops, he'll be gone a long time
What to do when your husband is abusive towards you and you want him to leave your house?
File for separation, and change the locks; if he makes trouble, call the police.
If you are within six months of turning 18 and can support yourself and have somewhere to go and your parents are mentally abusive can you move out?
Well, if you can't wait the 6 months and you leave and your parents freak, your best bet would be to go to court and get emancipated. If your parents aren't going to care, just leave. You don't need that.
