How do you pick between 2 men you love when your husband is deployed but you have met someone else in the military and your husband knows about him but the other guy doesn't know you're married?

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When someone you love is deployed I can understand how lonely it gets, but it's no reason to use this as an excuse to find someone else. Your husband needs your support more than ever and remember, he's lonely and scared too! This is truly a test to see just how much you mean to each other. No one said marriage or even a relationship was a bowl of cherries. This is a test to see who has the "staying power" and how much you really love each other. Can you do it girl? You need to give your head a shake! Start writing your husband or, if possible, see if you can phone him. Try! Even though your husband knows about the other guy it must be hell for him because he's stuck where he is and can't do anything about it. If you leave your husband for this other guy and your husband comes back you could well realize you've truly made a big mistake. Absence should make the heart grow fonder and not make you drift apart. Hey, here's an idea ... go out with girlfriends! Sorry, but it's time you grew up! I suggest you go onto Google.com Type in: Love letters from the Vietnam War Also later Type in: Love letters from the WWII. Perhaps this will set your mind straight. If you don't start to sit up and fly right you could be making the worst mistake of your life and you'll be the one that will pay dearly for it. Loneliness is a difficult thing, but one can bury themselves in work, friends, hobbies, or volunteer work. There is no need to be in the situation you are in. Remember, you are responsible for your own actions and you will have to live with them. Good luck Marcy You should be ashamed of yourself! Your husband is risking his life to defend our country and YOUR freedom, and you have the audacity to cheat on him. You don't deserve your husband!!