How do you stop ex mistress trying to get my husband back?

What recourse does a wife have when the husband has committed adultery in VA and the woman won't go away?

ANSWER:Tell him that he needs to talk to his ex mistress and tell her to stop, or else tell your husband that you will not put up with his ex mistress. Either he made her stop, or tell him that he needs to move out, period.

Who is responsible on stopping the harassment the wife is receiving by the mistress the other woman or the married man who had the affair?

Women by nature are jealous of the other woman so they have a tendency to blame the mistress in the affair and even when the mistress harasses the wife, but it is the husband in this case that should stop the harassment because he started it all. Get tough with the husband and ignore the mistress; the ball is in his court.

Does the wife usually tell her husband not to talk to the mistress anymore after the affair has been discovered or does the husband make that choice?

You shouldn't even stay married to him if that happens! ANSWER: I did mine, and yes our husband has the choice to do it if they want to. But the question is will it be the right thing to do if the husband still kept the communication from his mistress ( ex). If the spouse wont stop, this is a sign that no matter what you ask him he will ignore you, is showing that he can't live without being connected with his mistress.

How do I tell boyfriend's exgirlfriend she needs to stop trying to get him back?

you tell her "stop trying to get your ex back, its never going to happen."

If a wife sent her husbands mistress a message after finding out about the affair and the mistress never responded back what would the wife think about that?

Quite simple love, she's probably scared and feeling awkward because she didn't realize and expect that you know or even have her cell number. Now all hell break loose, ( excuse my language) and I bet that your husband probably know already what you have done. If he comes home, be calm act like nothing is going on, then wait if his going to talk to you or not. Just know that his mistress already told your husband what you sent to her. Don't let him manipulate you by telling you that he made a mistakes. Good luck..

Who's problem is it to resolve if the other woman is still contacting the wife and the married man she had the affair with?

Your husband had a tongue in his head and he could have said 'no' to having an affair with the other woman or, he started the affair so it is up to the husband to resolve the problem with the mistress contacting the wife and himself. If the husband does not stop the ex mistress from phoning his wife and himself then the wife should at least apply for a separation because he may still be seeing the mistress.

Is it right for a wife to divorce her husband because of his mistress that he lives with and then the ex wife becomes the mistress?

Definitely, all of us has different reason why we wanted to divorce our husband. In other hand it's amazing that when your husband becomes your ex, that's when he wanted to be with you, sex and all. If I were you, I will not let him back into your life. This man has issue when you were still married, he betrayed you for this woman, now that they are living together his also betraying the woman who he pick for a lover.. You need to stop him no matter how much you love him.

What does she wants when the other woman keeps calling your spouse?

I think she wanted to have what your husband gave her. Or was your husband fell in love with his ex mistress because she expect no condition from your husband? How about your husband, are you sure that he stop talking to her. Before you can really blame this woman, see if your husband still talking to her, but don't let her manipulate you as well as your husband. I can give you lots of idea what might this woman wants but I won't because what happen to you is a bit different from mine. But I will share my own personal experience from the man that I married to his ex mistress now. From the time I discovered my husband with the woman he met on line dating until now, this woman still part of my life, by email, cell phone or personal visit in my home. This woman said to me that she will not stop until she ruin my husband, so when she said it, she meant it because she is doing it not to his ex married lover but to me. 3 years and she still doing it, and I think the man that I married what ever his ex mistress is doing I will not believe her. But his ex mistress really fulfill what she had said in the past. So its either she wanted him back or maybe they decided to stay friends with benefit, or she want to know how he is doing with you. None is important but the other woman will never stop, and your husband " probably" enjoying it because his thinking there's 2 women that he loves fighting for him. If I were you, ignored what this ex mistress is doing, face your husband and ask him to do something, after all you never knew this woman until the day his affair was discovered. Good luck and try not to blame this woman yet, your husband was the one that open this other life not you....

Can you stop a husband controlling behaiver after 30 years of marriage?

No. He will probably get violent if he thinks you are trying to leave. So be ready. I'd get an internet boyfriend first, get with him, then leave your husband.

What if your spouses ex mistress does not want to stop the emotional affair?

When an ex mistress of the husband in question refuses to leave him alone it is one of two things: he is not making it clear to her that the affair is over and is still in touch with her or, she has an obsession with him and will not take no for an answer. The ball is in your husband's court and he should be looking after this problem. If he is serious about ending the relationship with his mistress and she stalking or constantly phone him or bothering him at work all he has to do is see a lawyer and get a restraining order put against her. If he refuses to do this then be wary that he does not want to completely end the relationship with her.

Where should I get the form to stop child support as I moved back to my husband?

from child support enforcement

Can anything be done about husband bringing his mistress when he picks up the kids?

No - if you are separated and he has visitation, you cannot stop him from bringing whomever he wants when picking up the children unless you can prove that she somehow is a danger to the children.