tell your current love how you feel and be as honest as u can be
Talk to her when you feel that you can be non accusatory and non judgemental. Discussing things that upset you or make you feel bad is the most straight forward way to handle these situations.
Either he is in love with her or he just wants to hurt you. ANSWER: Your husband is in love with his lover, and everything she does to him is all about making him happy. His mistress has this quality that you never had. This are what will happen especially if he loves her. From my own personal experience, my husband did the same when I asked him what did his woman have that I don't have, and that's when he told me what he saw in her. The quality of this other woman was the one that the man I married didn't have no problem being open to her. But as usual the truth hurt and I'm grateful the man that I married didn't lie to me about his feelings towards his mistress. I knew for a fact that when our spouse have this feelings towards their mistress, the marriage can not be save anymore. When a spouse begun to have this kind of attraction towards his mistress, you can bet that his love is a bit more different. The man I married feelings for his mistress was spiritually, like being soulmate, so the day he told me his feelings for her, I knew that our marriage will be impossible to work on because, his love for me will never be the same anymore. Sad but God knows its true.
Yes, the wife can feel like a mistress when her husband is having an affair because he may well either love his wife; love both women or, he wants to continue with a sexual relationship with his wife and the adventure of having a sexual relationship that is exciting with his mistress. A wife that puts up with her husband's cheating is an enabler and if she allows it to go on then she is not only stripping herself of her dignity and self worth, but she her husband will not respect her for putting up with it. 'You' are in control of this situation and sit down with your husband and tell him you are not putting up with his cheating and he either goes to marriage counseling with you; drops the mistress or you are divorcing him. This should get his attention!
Each partner should know (by good communication skills) what the other enjoys sexually and that way both get extreme pleasure out of making love. Just pleasing one partner for the sake of it and not enjoying it yourself will lead to resentment and the feeling you are left out of pleasurable love making. Love making is actually an art form that should be investigated to a degree and practiced. Sit down with your spouse and discuss what each of you likes or dislikes.
Tell the child, Agape love is how I feel about my spouse and you. Phileo love is the kind of love i have towards my friends.
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of course I am gonna feel sad about it. but i will just take it easy. there are millions of people are waiting for me.
he used to love her because he was often around her and she tought him how to read and write
Try calmly talking to your spouse about this matter. And if your spouse assures you that they are not, then accept the fact that they are telling the truth. And if you still don't believe your spouse, try following them around & see what their up to.
Usually people love those who don't or can't love them because they inwardly know that person is in capable of doing so. For example, a wife who has been beaten will love a spouse because they feel she can change him; later, they fall into a syndrome of pain and pleasure. He will hurt me and then--he will love me by making it up to me. The answer is varied with each situation.
There are two different versions with the same title, one is by Roberta Flack, the other by Bad Company.