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Should you wait for someone who wants to break up temporarily so they can sow their wild oats?
* No, of course you shouldn't just wait devotedly. However, if you're fine with a mutually sexually unfaithful relationship, then that's what you should suggest to him. After all, from an intellectual point of view, sexual fidelity doesn't make much sense anymore. (If precautions are taken.) Why should you mind if the one you love has some fun, and it doesn't hurt anyone in any way? (Unless you're coming short yourself.)
This works only if both are very liberal-minded and non possessive people.
On the other hand, sex with the one you love should always be more pleasant (though less exciting) than with some stranger.
So infidelity doesn't make any sense either, except for excitement.
* NO. Absolutely do NOT wait for him. He wants to have his cake and eat it too. Also, do not give yourself to someone you haven't got a permanent hold on. If he cries for you to want him, but wants others to want him too, then too bad. He has to choose. If he can't, then choose for him. Leave, and find someone worth your time. A man who can be stolen away for any reason, is not worth taking back. * No, it's not realistic, and he has one heck of a gall expecting you to wait. Don't! Tell him you need to spread your wings and sow a few wild oats yourself! That will get him thinking! He's full of it; afraid of commitment and he should have never had a relationship with you or anyone else so quickly after leaving his ex. Unfortunately, the truth is, you filled a lonely need in him both spiritually and sexually. If he thinks that's love he'd better live a little more life. If he loves you, then he should be completely happy and be talking about a future with you. Please, don't hang around waiting for this guy and just take it as a lesson learned. We all have to learn lessons in this life. * Absolutely not! If he's very young then he has a right to do this, but if he's 28 or older he should have sown these oats already and he's playing games with you. "Sowing wild oats" is an old term so I think this fellow isn't so young. Don't fall for it! Tell him, "Go ahead and sow those oats, because that's what I intend on doing as well. We might as well get it over with, but I'm not making any promises of being here when you get back from sowing those oats!" Watch his face and the quick turn around. For some reason men think they have the corner market on what they want to do in a relationship ... they're in for one big surprise! * You should have broken up with him five seconds BEFORE this conversation ever took place! If you don't have the courage to do it alone, find a therapist to help you. Go to a CODA meeting. Call Dr. Laura. Or do all three. == == * If he just wants to go "do it" with other people, he obviously doesn't care for you. If you "wait" for him, you may be waiting forever; or, when he does get bored with other women and come back to you, it's only a matter of time before he gets bored with you and wants to leave you for other people again. For info on relationships, see www.StudiesOfLove.com
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What if your boyfriend found out you think someone else is hot and now he wants to break up with you what do you do?
well its not your fault if you think someone else is hot. we cant help it. but if he wants to break up because you think someone else is hot then he id a bad boyfriend and you should break up with him.
What should you do if your boyfriend of almost 5 years wants to take a break?
If he wants a break, give a him a break. Break his friendship.
Why would someone try to break it up?
When someone wants to break up a relationship it usually means that the breaker-upper wants one of the people in a couple.
Is it wrong for you two date your guy friend if he wants to break up with one of your friends for you?
no there is nothing wrong with it if he wants to break up with someone for someone else. hes just showing that he cares for someone else.
Girlfriend wants a break for a month or so should you wait suppose to move into apt with her in a week?
no dont move in, she wants a break!
Why did he break up with me for her?
Only "he" can answer that. I doubt you would get an honest answer if you asked. Your focus should be on finding someone who wants to spend time with you and create a new future
What does it mean when my boyfriend says he wants to go on a break?
it means your not putting out enough and he wants to sleep with someone else,
What is it when someone break up with u for someone else but still talk to u?
He still wants to be friends with you.
Why he Wants To Break Up With you?
All you need to do is ask him. Don't be scared.
You like your girlfriend and she says she likes you back but she asks to break up. Should you call her or not?
Yes you should and ask her why she wants to break up.
Who were patriots in the American Revolutionary War?
someone who is loyal to the colonies and wants to break from the king
Should a girlfriend break up with you over you having girlsox?
No that is bullshift, if the girl wants to break up then she is stupid.
