chances are, the person who is trying to leave is scared the abuse will get worse, or happen even if they are not together. People in abusive relationships also believe they have a special bond with that person, which is why they haven't already left them the other person. get out of the relationship as soon as possible, or the situation will worsen. stay as far away from the person as long as you can, friends and families houses that he/she doesn't know about will be great.
People can't leave them because the person who is abusive to you will not let you go anywhere.
If you leave him, then it doesn't matter what he does. It wouldn't be called cheating if you left him. If he is abusive, then you should leave him.
If you can leave him - do it now.
LEAVE!!
Many BFs, or boyfriends, are not abusive. If a boyfriend is abusive, the girl should leave the relationship and file charges. Do not keep going back to an abuser.
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If a friend were in your situation, what would you advise?
There's a mulititude of reasons why it would be hard to leave an abusive relationship. In many cases it's psychological. Sometimes it's that the abused party in the relationship begins to feel like they deserve the abuse they recieve. Sometimes they reason with themselves, like..."Only one more time. I'll give them one more chance." and repeat this every time.
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You get a divorce and leave the house, before it is to late !
If you are in an abusive relationship you really must leave. Do you have a friend who could give you moral support at this very difficult time? Get the help of community services. They are funded by donors & by taxes. Women's services, First call for help, etc. They are experts in the field, and they have the answers you need. Every police officer has these phone numbers. You can ask an officer for a phone number.