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There are two people involved in abuse: the abuser and the abused. So either one of these two people can change the dynamic. If you resist the abuser and the result is a fight, you need to fight back if you want to stop the abuse. Talking won't help. Explaining won't help. The only thing that will help is resisting abuse. Yes, of course, that can promote violence. And I will always condemn violence. But these are the risk we sometimes have to take to preserve our dignity. There is more help on my website listed on the Bio Page.
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Should victims of an abusive relationship ever fight back verbally?
Sounds like a dumb idea. Why antagonize someone who is not capable of controlling their anger to the point of physical violence? You simply need to leave.
Can a person who has been verbally abusive in a relationship ever change in that same relationship and can the person that they have abused ever really forgive them?
Change in abusers is VERY VERY VERY rare, if ever. Forgiveness is a process. The abused must forgive THEMSELVES first & foremost. It's impossible to forgive someone who doesn't own, apologize and change permanently.
Do abusive men ever stop being abusive if they have done it many times before and say they will change?
Answer Abusive men are like drunks or drug users. Oh baby, please forgive me I really didn't mean it and when the heat dies down off they go again doing everything to spoil the day. Abusive men rarely stop on their own, they need professional help and the sooner the better. Don't believe the lies they tell you. they will never change on their own, they are sick people.
Can you ever be friends with an abusive ex?
I don't think anybody should be friends with an abusive ex. But you can do what you want i personally wouldn't but it's up to you.
How can you still love a guy that was physically abusive and will he ever change?
If the guy is an adult chances are he will never change. A person still can love this person because they sometimes think that it there fault when it is not. It gets complicated but it is hard to stop loving someone.
Is a physically abusive relationship defined by a single incident or a consistent and habitual pattern of conduct?
It doesn't matter. If someone was physically abusive toward you it certainly violates trust. You have to ask if you can ever trust again. Will you be waiting for it to happen again? Will you be worried that if you say or do the wrong thing that there will be another incident of abuse? That's no basis for a relationship.
Did albert einstein ever lied?
Everybody is capable of lying.
Are gay people capable of fighting in war?
Yes, they are capable, and have already done so in every war ever fought.
Your abusive partner always promises to get help but this has been going on for eleven years now will he ever change?
Honey for that long, I would of left when he first hit me. No matter what if a guy hits you even if he apoligises, he will keep going.
Were nuke capable missiles ever deployed?
Never in actual combat.
Will your verbally emotionally and sometimes physically abusive husband ever change?
Sure, he's likely to get worse. Things won't get better unless you make it happen. Either leave him or make him go with you for marriage counseling. See where it goes from there.
Do boys and men ever regret being abusive?
yes most of the time when the realise what they have done they will feel terrible
