Yes, especially if you plan to invite the same people.
Since the bride is never suppposed to be throwing the shower, it's up to the bridesmaids. It may be seen as a money-grubbing opportunity by the friends and relatives, especially if she didn't send everything back.
It is not poor etiquette to invite the same relatives and friends you had at your first wedding. Many people are married a second time.
The first baby is the first experience for the new parents and friends and family want to celebrate. However, as far as etiquette you can give a second baby shower for a second baby.
A mother can give her daughter a bridal shower (generally the guests would be relatives) but, it is usually the maid of honor that gives the bridal shower and perhaps coworkers at work.
There is more of a fuss made over the first child as far as baby showers, but there are no rules in etiquette if you want to have a second or third baby shower for the same expectant mother.
Yes, it is etiquette for a family member to have their wedding before another family member as long as it is not in the same month or day.
A wedding shower is a modern social contrivance. Whether you subscribe to it or not is up to you. Wedding showers were instituted to help equip couples who were starting their first household together. Nowadays, when many couples have either lived together or lived on their own prior to marriage, wedding showers are more often used to upgrade what the couples already have or for the couples to obtain luxury items for their households. There are even couples, that etiquette considers greedy, who request cash only gifts for showers and/or weddings that they want to use for their honeymoon, house downpayment, or other expense.
Yes, the mother should give a gift at one or more wedding showers, but after one larger gift for the first shower then the other gifts can be much cheaper such as nice hand towels for the bathroom; drinking glasses, etc.
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Yes, it's etiquette. However, a small gift is appropriate considering you went to the expense for the shower. If it's a wedding shower buy a wicker basket and you can put a bottle of wine in it; Brie Cheese; grapes and a few other goodies and then buy cellophane paper (see through) and wrap the basket and put a bow on it. It's not that expensive, but much appreciated. If it's a baby shower then a few little bibs or baby powder; soaps, etc., are cheap and acceptable. A little comb and brush is a good gift. One great idea is a small silver box for the baby's first curl or a silver box for the baby's first tooth and they are not expensive, but a well received gift.
Etiquette has it that the person who pays for the majority of the wedding is listed first. So if the brides parents are paying, put their names first. It shows who is "hosting" the party. However, although proper order is this, there are many variations of how to list parent's names that can match the style of the bride and groom.
To purchase wedding shower invitations one might just go the cheap way and buy a template online usually for no more than a dollar. You can go that route up to hiring a party planner who will handle everything for you of course this option is much more expensive.