How do you ask a boy to homecoming?

Answer 1

You can be all sweet about it if you want; perhaps take them out for a meal or something like that, but the most effective way is usually just to straight out ask, obviously when the mood and setting is correct, but just ask and all will be the clearest it can be to the guy you're asking.

Something you should definitely avoid is trying to get him to ask you, that's a very silly tactic that can send mixed signals and have some not great consequences.

Taking the spoiling route is usually something guys do to girls and not often the other way around, so as I said before, just asking straight out face to face is probably best.

Answer 2

Ask her nicely. Figure out why she would be hesitant. Are your grades bad? Does she not like the guy you would be going with? Does she not have the money to spend on a dress? Address the issue, for example, if she doesn't have the money to spend on a dress, tell her you will find a way to pay for all of it, or half of it, or you can borrow or make one. Homecoming is a right of passage. Have fun! And, don't turn down the nerdy, skinny senior that asks you because 10 years later, you will run into him at a hip bar on the night of the Marine's birthday and he will be in well filled out dress blue uniform and looking super hot and you will have gotten what you deserved...not even so much as a hi from him. (true story, happened to me)

Answer 3

Since you are inviting him to go with you, you might want to phrase the invitation "Would you like to go as friends to the homecoming with me? We can go dutch and it's better than staying at home!"

This is a biggie for guys in High School that have no money. They don't want to have to ask parents for money to take someone that isn't their girlfriend. Most guys would be flattered.

If he doesn't want to go, it might be because he doesn't want to get your hopes up about a future relationship together. So, it's important you let him know, this really is "just as friends!" not a manipulation to give the impression to others that you are "together".

It's good for both of you to go out and have fun. Someone that you might really be interested in having a relationship with might be impressed that you are flexible and easy to get along with, fun to be around under any circumstance. This is an attractive characteristic.

Answer 4

I really don't know but to give you some ideas you could watch some prom/ homecoming movies like Prom (the movie) or look up on YouTube some videos of guys asking girls to prom or homecoming ! oh wait i know you could go to the girls father first because sometimes the dad would like that because it shows respect. Hope this helped!

Answer 5

Spend time with them a week before. Try to do as many things with them as possible, but don't make it obvious. If you have a close relationship with them, then you probably won't have to do this. But try to show a interest in them, and then they will express and interest in you and will most likely ask you to go to homecoming.

Answer 6

Just be cool and wait for him to come to you.