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Prove nothing to no-one Achieve excellence for your sake not anyone else's. Keep others' perecption in mind but never a goal. (remember Rudyard Kipling's "IF") Consider the possibility that you are downplaying your intelligence. Conisder the possiblity that you are mixing with people beyond your league. Consider the possibilty of being in hostile territory. Bottom line: Be yourself but get challenged by a soul mate so you can push your limits. Love yourself, no matter what. Never let anyone put you down. The logistics for the above are: Select people who love you without conditions. If you do not yet have them in your life, wait, they are sure to come around. Until they do, love yourself unconditionally. Never whip yourself. But challenge it: learn something new everyday: a new word, a new tool, a new website...etc. If you can tolerate being with those who think you are simple or if you are obligated to stay with them, so be it. Write down the events that trigger such perception. Since it maybe painful, do not look at what you record immediately. After one day, look at what you wrote: did you really act too naively? If not, what could you have done differently. If there is something you could have done differently, what stopped you from doing that other thing? Keep doing this. Eventually, an internal sensor will develop that will enable you to select the options that better suit your abilities and help you be seen as you truly are. Take this process very slowly: not expecting immediate results.

Also A simple way to not appear "simple" is to use proper grammar and spelling.

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