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What if you are having an affair because your spouse does not make you happy in certain areas?
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∙ 12y ago
You haven't been honest with yourself and you've not only copped out on your marriage vows, but also yourself! Every marriage has some problems, but mature couples try to work through them. If both decide they just aren't compatible then they should split-up.
It's unfair to your spouse to cheat simply because he/she doesn't make you happy in certain areas. How are they suppose to know unless you sit down with your spouse and express yourself and open up your ears and listen to him/her. Both parties get hurt in a situation like this.
There is something more going on with you then you are willing to admit to yourself. It's more about you than really your spouse. All of us know that after some years of marriage (or even going together for years) it can get dull, but hey, we all have to figure out ways to spice up the relationship.
The grass on the other side of the fence isn't always greener. Because you aren't looking at this or acting in a mature manner you don't get the fact, that no matter who you end up with you are going to have problems in your relationship.
I hope you rethink what you are doing. Have the guts to admit you can't stay in the marriage, be honest with your partner and then hit the road or grow up and try working it out with your spouse!
Marcy
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Your question is legit, but why didn't you just told him what's going on with you. Maybe its hard for you because you don't want to hurt his feelings. But always remember " the truth always hurt" no mater how you put it.
From my own experience that's what my husband did, when I caught his affair with this woman. I stop giving him his needs.
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∙ 12y ago
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Can you sue if your wife cheats in CA?
I live in California and I never heard some cases about a spouse suing the spouse because of affair or cheating. The only way a spouse might get in trouble is when and if his having an affair and not supporting his children under age. But for a wife getting in trouble because of her cheating, it will be hard.
Does the male spouse generally refuse to admit to his affair even when the other spouse caught him?
Yes, the male spouse will often refuse to admit he has been cheating on his wife because they feel guilty and even while having the affair they feel it is wrong so they will lie no matter how much evidence is against them.
Can you sue your spouse for having an affair?
There is no need to sue your spouse, but you do have the right to file for divorce and in some states half of what he owns will go to you if you have the right lawyer. The person your spouse is having the affair with can be named as to the reason you are applying for a divorce. It would be wise of you to seek legal counsel to see what your options are.
Can you overcome the emotional turmoil of finding out your spouse has been having emotional affair?
Yes!
What does having an affair mean?
It means your married and seeing someone other than your spouse.
Why do extramarital affairs end?
Because it will not be helpful for the couples who's having a problem. And if the spouse didn't stop, he will loose a lot more that he expected. And the worst case scenario the spouse who's having an affair will become closer to the other person.
Will your spouse have an affair to because you were caught?
yes i think she would
You have found out someone cheated on spouse visa what should you do now?
Your question is a bit complex but if you want to know what you need to do because you found out a spouse is having an affair and you know the other spouse, you need to talk to the person who is cheating to stop because of your friend. If this spouse don't listen to your plea, then tell him or her that you will talk to his or her spouse. That is all you can do. The rest will be them to work things out.
How will you feel if your spouse compared you to his affair partner?
No woman would want to be compared to their spouse's affair partner. When a spouse does this they are getting even for having to stay with their spouse. It hurts and cuts deeply when the cheating spouse makes comments about how much better their affair partner was. Take control and let your spouse know immediately you are not going to put up with their childish behavior and if their affair partner is so great then tell him/her (no matter how hard it is for you) that you will file for divorce as you deserve better.ANSWER:It will be a pleasure to answer this question because it did happened to me personally. When I discovered my husband's affair, I had found out that his not only admired this woman but he fell in love with her. And that is why he compared me to his "friend" aka mistress. The day he compared me to her was the day that I know, no matter how much we wanted to rebuild the relationship it will not work with me anymore. I will not be the second choice after his affair..
Do you really know the warning sign that your spouse could be having an affair?
men only have affairs because their home sec life is sooo borin. Women this is really simple, if you want to keep your man from having an affair keep your sex life spicey else he *will* wander...
Is it mental cruelty if your spouse accuses you of having an affair but he has no proof and then he files for divorce but has no grounds?
yes that is mental cruelty because he has no reason to file for a divorce with no proof what so ever
Is your spouse cold and distant to everyone after his affair including your children?
if he had an affair, then he shouldn't still be your "spouse", in my opinion.
