I believe they are both equal, because once a cheater, always a cheater
That is like the pot calling the kettle black because you are also cheating so you have no right to judge the partner you are cheating with and if you were more secure in yourself you wouldn't have to cheat with someone else's boyfriend or spouse. You have no business accusing anyone of being a chronic cheater or telling their partner about it. It is time for you to take a good look at yourself and ask yourself why you feel the need to cheat and hurt the partner of the chronic cheater. The chronic cheater cheats because they can and they do not care about anyone's feelings including yours.
Most of the time, but not always.
Fear is hardly what drives a cheater, love. It is called being selfish. Or fear of not being able to be selfish anymore.
Once a cheater always a cheater. She will not stop cheating. She broke the worst rule "honesty" between a couple. There is a difference between a person that makes a stupid mistake such as cheating and realizing what they did and being honest with their partner about it and one who simply gets caught. You caught her, she was't going to tell you, so yes, I think she'd do it again. Tell her to hit the bricks. You deserve better.
It is vital that the person wronged, feels that the cheater has listened. The unfaithful partner needs to feel grief and remorse. See a marriage counselor.
* This is because they care for their name in the society .To prevent this they still stay together. * Although cheating is a low and demeaning act towards a partner it can be caused by problems in the marriage, but with good communication skills some marriages can be saved, but the percentages are low. Because a person cheats does not mean they do not love their partner, but there is something the cheater needs they aren't getting at home. In many cases once a person cheats on their mate that bond of trust is gone and they will always be suspicious of their partner's actions. Some couples stay together because they may have a business venture together and a divorce could be complicated or, the person that is cheated on would rather put up with their spouse cheating because they don't have enough confidence to strike out on their own and make a life for themselves so it's more comfortable for them to put up with the cheating. There are some couples that both cheat and can live with it and others that stay together for the sake of the children.
After cheating on their girlfriend, guys may feel guilty, ashamed, and regretful for their actions. They may also feel anxious about the consequences of their behavior and fear losing their partner's trust.
People that do cheat on their spouse or partner will be hard to see, they are very carefull to where they at and who their with. If and when they see their affair partner it will be inside the affair's partner home, or in the hotel. And most of the time the cheater will make sure that the house of that person is a bit far from where he or she lives.
If your girl friend cheats on you then the guy has to dump her after he finds out who it is. But she cheats on a girl then theres a problem. And if your boyfriend cheats on you or is crushing on another girl just dump him but ask him if he likes another girl first instead of dumping him if you do not know.
First answer:I don't believe the saying "once a cheater always a cheater." I have actually cheated on my current fiancee when we first got together. I felt horrible I was going through a lot and my conscience was killing me. I finally came out and told him. It devastated him. It took a while to get his trust back. I have not done anything since nor do I have the urge too. Everyone is different so you can not say or know for sure if someone will cheat again.Second answer:I don't believe it either, I cheated on my boyfriend after i found out that he cheated on me. I did it out of spite, to make myself feel better, but then i felt guilty, and now I'm working on trusting him, and i don't have the urge. I'm not a cheater; I just did it because i was hurt and angry. But now I'm just happy to know that he loves me and i love him, and all we want to do is work on our relationship, and trust.Third answer:Once you cheat, it may be easier to talk yourself into doing it again, if you didn't suffer and cause enough pain the first time. A spouse who cheats and is genuinely sorry and values his marriage can learn his lesson the hard way and never cheat again. It's possible, but the burden is on the cheater to win back the trust of the innocent partner, assuming she knows of the affair.And if possible, the cheater should not confess a past indiscretion to the innocent partner. It's not fair for the cheater to relieve his own guilty conscience by telling his innocent partner. That's a painful secret the cheater should spare his innocent partner, and that pain should belong to the cheater alone. That is the least a cheater can do for his innocent partner.Cheating has never made any relationship better. It's better not to make a promise at all if you are not ready to do anything and everything to keep it.
i have done it once and hated myself for it and still do now. i am no longer with the person i cheated on and it is a good thing too. the moment you think about cheeting on your partner is the moment you no longer have feelings or love them anymore.