What are some catch phrases that can stop bullying?

Answer 1

I am not an expert on this subject but I do know about human character being a counselor. I have added a link for you to help you out with this problem.

Most bullying occurs because the person doing the bullying usually has a negative self esteem or has other problems so he takes it out on others. So what needs to happen to that person? He needs to know he does not need to play this "one up and one down" game anymore. He needs to know he would be accepted by others if he accepted himself and others. It is hard for a bully to understand the concept of love your neighbor more than yourself. But he or she can learn it if you are willing to show him or her love in some way which that person can actually receive love. A wise man, Jesus, said to love your enemies. He was right.

For example, if you gave flowers or a gift to the bully his wall or guard may be let down. Say the bully is a young boy ten years old. He likes comic cards or books. So give him some without his knowing you are going to do this. It will break down the wall.

Speak positively to the bully (child or adult). Don't throw negative stuff back at him because he thinks the negative stuff makes him superior to you and wants you to be "under his spell".

Here is a scenario of some kids.

Bully: Hey give me your lunch or you'll be sorry.

Victim: Oh, are you hungry? I brought you an extra lunch. I hope you like Chocolate Chip Cookies.

Bully: Hey, give me your money.

Victim: Sure, my dad sent $5 for you . We want to know if you would like to come over to our house to watch videos.

Bully: (slugs the victim) You wimp.

Victim: Stands up and gives him a hug. Thanks I needed that. Love you bud.

Victim walks away. (cannot be said with a sarcastic voice). Call me if you need anything.