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There really is no deep explanation for that. They often say it's when certain planets are aligned, etc. Scientists have come out with the most stupid statement I've ever heard, "The moon has no bearing on the human being." I disagree highly, because if the moon can change tides, it certainly can change people's moods. I worked in a psychiatric ward and we were on full alert when there was a full moon and we watched certain patients very carefully. Yes, there was a change, and no, they didn't turn into a werwolf, but they definetely did have a change in personality. If you haven't studied "auras" then look it up on: www.google.com Type in: Information on human auras" This is an extremely interesting and a futuristic look into why we feel what we do (fear, excitement, even health.) Each person has a complete aura around them (each person may have a different color or colors.) If we meet someone and we don't like them for some reason, it's because the auras aren't meshing and literally clashing. When we are sad, angry, happy, etc., our auras change colors. Even when we fall in love the auras are more equal. Some scientistic are now realizing that by studying the human aura they can detect a break in the aura where there is a medical problem. Seeing your aura is quite the sight. You need total darkness and an unltra violet light and when you go onto the website on auras ask this question "how can you see your own aura?" Once you start studying it you'll find it really interesting and it's hard not to keep seeking more info on it. It's the future! If you've seen pictures of Jesus there is always a halo around his head. Only He has this aura. We have a complete halo effect (aura) around our entire body. For example: A man goes to war and loses a leg. He will often complain for years that the leg feels like it's still there or it's itchy. In fact, the leg is still there! If you test his aura you will see a complete leg there. The body of a person is only the shell and what we are is our auras and I like to think of it as actually our soul. Think of this one .... we are made up of the substances of the stars and full of energy, so as we grow older (complaints of getting colder easier, etc.) our aura is actually losing energy. When a person is in a dying process the aura grows weaker and when death finally occurs the aura floats away from the body. That's a proven fact! They say after death we are ligher in weight. Most doctors will use every excuse in the book to tell us it's fluid loss, etc., but, I believe our soul has left. That energy is gone! To this very day, when a person dies the person is left in the hospital room at least an hour for the soul to pass. While in the dying process some hospitals have special nurses listening to the patient and taking notes in order to understand the process of dying and perhaps where we go after death. Also, after a person dies and goes to the funeral home (at least in Canada) the person's body is left 3 days to be sure they have actually passed away. I didn't know this until my mother passed away. Hope this info proves interesting to you. I still study it. Merry Christmas Marcy You have to read the book "Love Signs" by Linds Goodman. It is amazing! it has very in depth chapters on each signs combinations. Truly, get it now. I have had it for years and read it over and over again. Good luck! Thanks so much for that info on the book "love signs" and I'm going to get it to read. Always love to find out more on a subject that's interesting. Merry Christmas Marcy

Most abusive people are subtle in their luring. They can act like nothing happen because they believe nothing happened. Abusers deny any responsbility or take any accountability of hurting or destroying. I don't know what happened to you, but know this your best weapon against them is to warn others and let others know what happened to you. Even getting the law involved if need be. Secrecy is what abusive people need to keep it happening.

They act like this because to them it is "normal behavior". If you acted like that the abuser would think you were crazy. Mine does this all the time. He tells me that after he "blows off steam" he feels better..imagine that. Most abusers feel this way or in some way you provoked the behavior..you did something or said something that set them off. Ususally after I have been raked over the coals, we have a honeymoon period. He is really nice and helpful. But it doesn't last long. I just sit and wait for the other shoe to drop. In the abusers eyes, if you accept this behavior then he feels you deserved it. It is a warped game they play with themselves.

Abusers lead a Jekyll and Hyde double life. To the outside world, they are charming, personable and charismatic. This is especially true of those with narcissistic tendencies or the disorder. It is a totally different story with the abuser's partner and close family members, the abuser's sense of entitlement and need for control kicks in, and he behaves very badly. If you tried to tell someone on the outside about some of the things the abuser does, they wouldn't believe you.

My abuser could turn this behavior off and on in a flash. He could be extremely angry with me one moment, the phone would ring, he would answer it, and then he would carry on a conversation with the other party as though nothing were going on and everything was great. If I didn't get over it according to his time table (in other words - immediately) he would get angry AGAIN.

Abusers typically blame the other person for "causing" them to rage. That would explain why an abuser "acts like nothing has happened after they rake you over the coals." The abuser thinks that you are responsible when he gets angry.

I read this somewhere - "the abuser looks in the mirror, sees that his face is dirty, and wipes the mirror."