---- Call the police, if the abuse continues, then leave him and never go back. ----
First of all, if he's abusive, tell the police. Assault is a serious crime. Second, you can change your name and cut your hair off
I am sure that it would depend on the abusive ex-husband.
You might need to consult an attorney regarding this matter. Hopefully, you have not been abusive towards your husband.
It took me nearly six years to get out of my relationship with my ex-husband. He was incredibly abusive. The only way I've found that I've been able to successively keep myself away from my ex is to make sure I prosecuted him through the court system. I also got a full order of protection (aka restraining order) against him. I finally went through with my divorce. And, I called on all my friends and family for support. There are days I want to just walk right back into the entire situation, but I have to look at what it did to me. In the relationship, I lost myself. Once you rid yourself of an abusive husband, the most important thing is to find YOURSELF again. Once you find yourself, you will find the courage to stay out of his life.
If your husband is verbally and emotionally abusive, you can break the negative cycle by seeking the services of a family counselor or filing for divorce.
If you can leave him - do it now.
Abusive.
blood or he is never home
yes he can cause if not the abusive ness will only get worse
are the courts aware that your husband was or is abusive towards you?
There is no prohibition against divorce in the Torah. Although the husband has to initiate divorce according to Jewish law, in cases of abuse, the husband can be forced to do so. The exception regarding no prohibition against divorce is that a husband can't divorce his wife due to illness or inability to have children.
It does not matter. They are the same thing.